Fanaa means "Destroyed in Love"!

Fanaa means "Destroyed in Love"

Recently I had been to Cochin for a vacation. On one fine evening, I, my Sister, Brother in Law and grand ma went to Cochin Shipyard. We went for a sail on a motor driven boat. There were around 30 members on the boat.

It was a breezy chill evening. We sat on a upper deck. I and grandma on one side; Sister and Brother-in-Law in opposite side. As we sat, a pretty girl in her twenties sat beside my sister. She had long smooth hairs and eye catching shape. She came with a elder person which I guess is her uncle.
My eyes automatically was turning to have a glance at her. Cool breeze kissed her hairs in a gentle swing. Breeze carried her fragnance to me, I was carried away by her beauty.

I made up my mind that some how I should have a word with her. I was glancing at her at every opportunity I get while speaking with my sister.
My sister whispered "Hmmm...I can see your eyes seeing someone else"?
I said "Hmm...Hey dear please initiate conversation with the girl beside you".
Sister: "Come on".. Don't you have guts to speak to a girl?

Me: "Are yaar" understand...grand ma is also here....
Sister: "Don't worry, she will not mind it...just proceed...
Me: Let me see...

I couldn't start a conversation with the girl as her uncle was right beside her. The girl was watching the other ships passing by..

Sister: You went for shopping DVD's...So what movies you bought?
Me: I got some Hindi movies...Humtum, Parineeta, Fanaa...

Sister: Hmmm...Fanaa... What is the meaning of Fanaa?
Me: I said Fanaaa....means....burnt in.....

As I was saying this, I heard some one speak "Destroyed in ..."
I turned my eyes, and was astonished to see girl's eyes straight into my eyes! My heart rate jumped to 1000 beats/sec! Then she continued saying....

Fanaa means destroyed in Lovee!
I couldn't believe my ears...I said.."Please say it again"...
She said "Fanaa means Destroyed in Love...Love!"

I was speachless for a couple of seconds..
Then I grasped this opportunity and asked her so you watch Hindi movies?
She said "Ya", I do..

Me: Ok..
Then another straight one from her: "What's your name"?!
I said: "Kiran....Kiran Kumar" and asked her "What's your name?"

She said "Soniya"
Then we started having conversation with eachother.... I could see surprised look in face of my sister...

Me: Soniya, so you study in Cochin?
Soniya: No, I am stuying M.B.A in Pune.

I was shocked! I immediately said, I am also from Pune!
Soniya: Oh! So what do you do in Pune?

Me: I am working as a Design Engineer. Where do you study in Pune?
Soniya: Symbiosis....

Me: Oh! I stay a couple of Kms from Symbiosis...
Soniya: Hmm...Is it ?

Our conversation went for around 10 minutes... then I heard my sister say.. "Anna, Ship journey is over!"...

People started rushing through and so did I...
In matter of few seconds, Soniya vanished somewhere...

I looked around everywhere, but she vanished in the darkness. We didn't exchange our mail ID's nor phone number's because we were totally lost in conversation.

I felt like falling from Mt.Everest. I asked my sister, did you see her?
Sister said "No anna".

That was the end of a unforgettable lovely evening with a beautiful girl!".

i cant do anything other than :lol:

now start searching for her on orkut ... :lol:

i have passed through this sitution many times

:S i dont have guts to talk to a girl

therefore

is it a story or a true incidence?wow dude you shoulda taken some snaps.

wow.I have one suggestion pm everyone in digit forum.who knows she is here.For a while kiran you can continue trips to symbiosis.Best of luck.

@kiran
yar i've got one thing to say....many of u might not like what am saying but dats what i find da truth is...

"LOVE NO MORE EXISTS"

I've been through it in ma life and seen it hard ways...everyone luv or like u only because he\she needs u for sum task and not because he\she respects ur feelings....its all useless....

@m #@@py @l0n3....

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cmon man abhishek, dont demotivate the fellow!

am just telling da stuth sai..dat what da truth is....don't u agree???
I've been through those hard path and dont want others to b in pains....

how about a new thread for this topic???

orkut zindabaad ... nahi toh as some 1 said ... sybiosis k saamne wale sandwich k saath time bitana shuru kar do :lol:

^ ... sure .....

The_Devil_Himself said:
is it a story or a true incidence?wow dude you shoulda taken some snaps.

This is not a story. This is a real incident. I also have her in video which I shoot there.

Guys, this is not Love or anything like that. That is a mere attraction. I don't believe in Love at first sight. Love develops with time. The lengther the relationship, more stronger is the love toward eachother. That's my view. I have posted here just for sharing it. I am not gonna search her in symbiosis nor orkut!

Well, my Love is already in my way in the form of marriage. So jus read & have fun guys. And do share such similiar experiences if you have....

Arre bose when are you going to share that video then?Compress it and give us the link.Or you plan to keep it to yourself?

...girl may not be a native of kochin.

Why praka?

Never expected to see such a topic 4m u kiran.

neways good luck finding her.. Btw u hav a great and understanding sis..

Kiran_tech_mania said:
I also have her in video which I shoot there.

How was she? Did u ask which "year" or "semester" she was in Symbi? If you know that then I can get u help very very easily in Symbi Pune.

I am not gonna search her in symbiosis nor orkut!

Need help in initiating talk? Always start with some lite flirting.

Well, my Love is already in my way in the form of marriage.

Wohooooo....we all need kabab parathe treat then ASAP.

And do share such similiar experiences if you have....

Lolz...if i do that the forum database will crash with load

The_Devil_Himself said:
Arre bose when are you going to share that video then?Compress it and give us the link.Or you plan to keep it to yourself?

Sorry mate, I can't post it here nor anywhere else.

The_Devil_Himself said:
Why praka?

I cannot imagine this in Kochi and a Malayali girl will not be that open although they may appear sophisticated,inside majority are orthodox.

pathiks said:
Never expected to see such a topic 4m u kiran. neways good luck finding her.. Btw u hav a great and understanding sis..

Yes. That is usually the case with all of us dude. Apart from tech stuff, we all doesn't know much aboutother part of life. And so Chit-Chat section is always there....

Admin must be thinking to scrap out this section now!

@kiran
if you don't wanna find her
then why is this POST mortem thread for?

Prakash, Is "soniya" a malayalee name?
I don't think so.

^yes,many malayalees have sonia as their name,mostly syrian christians(Nasrani's),we dont care for the naming thingy that u shud stick to John,Jose,abraham, etc.even,do u except me Prakash be a Hindu? :lol:

^^^ Hehe! No.

interesting chit chat

best of luck kiran ! i guess you can easily find her coz you live very near to where she works... just give regular trips to her office or nearby.. try the timings when the office begins or it gets over

, and lunch time can also be a good time..

and ummmm one more thing.. if i was you then i wpuld have gone to her offcie, reaching the enquiry i would have asked for her and then talk to her. simple, you had a nice talk with her and a very inviting one.. just go and try your luck... or maybe you also get FANAA

Kiran bhai apni cycle nikalo aur us area ka chakar lagao.

gx_saurav said:
How was she? Did u ask which "year" or "semester" she was in Symbi? If you know that then I can get u help very very easily in Symbi Pune.

She was beautiful. She looked like Malayalie. I am in no mood to find her dude becoz as I said, my marriage proposals are in progress...and I don't wanna get involved in a triangular mess!

gx_saurav said:
Need help in initiating talk? Always start with some lite flirting.

Flirting? Well, done enough of it in my college days....now it's not the right time.

gx_saurav said:
Wohooooo....we all need kabab parathe treat then ASAP.

Sure! I will invite all members here with invitation! But it's not gonna be soon...

gx_saurav said:
Lolz...if i do that the forum database will crash with load

Hmmm....absolutely! Any discussion regarding girls will have the same fate.

gary4gar said:
@kiran
if you don't wanna find her
then why is this POST mortem thread for?

Just a write up mate.....

Very interesting Kiran...

Seems so nice ..but

why its destroyed in love...
it must be like

Destroyed in Attraction.....

Hmmm....absolutely! Any discussion regarding girls will have the same fate.

Very true but itsa also true that sometimes these small conversations are there in ur mind for a long long time.

Kiran_tech_mania said:
She was beautiful. She looked like Malayalie. I am in no mood to find her dude becoz as I said, my marriage proposals are in progress...and I don't wanna get involved in a triangular mess!

Triangular messes can be huge fun!

.... for us atleast!

I guess everyone of us have gone thorugh such BEAUTIFULL experiences......

We get involved in that small CONVERSATION.....which stays in our HEART for lifetime...and when we grow older we THINK of it and a SMILE is on our face....its sweeter and makes us happier....maybe we think she might be thinking same for us...or abt the moment for lifetime.....and then story ends there

.....

I would like to hear stories....which continued after that small CONVERSATIOn

....

Kool conservation
But Kiran Bhai u told ur designer engineer
designer engineer of wat?? N where?

shantanu said:
best of luck kiran ! i guess you can easily find her coz you live very near to where she works... just give regular trips to her office or nearby.. try the timings when the office begins or it gets over , and lunch time can also be a good time..

and ummmm one more thing.. if i was you then i wpuld have gone to her offcie, reaching the enquiry i would have asked for her and then talk to her. simple, you had a nice talk with her and a very inviting one.. just go and try your luck... or maybe you also get FANAA

Dude, good suggestions, but really no time to do all those things!

But Kiran Bhai u told ur designer engineer
designer engineer of wat?? N where?

azzu said:
But Kiran Bhai u told ur designer engineer
designer engineer of wat?? N where?

Yes mate. I am a Design Engineer working in Tata Technologies Ltd, Pune.
My area of design is Automobile Interiors like Dashboard, Console, Inner Door Trim, etccc

I also design Body-in-White components (BIW) for automobiles (most projects are new Cars for Indian & overseas automobile giants). We do this design using CATIA V5 3D modelling software.

wow ill PM u now

what a thread...i too had a similar experience..
point is, how much ever u are stressed up in your life, just a breeze of that incident throu ur mind, u get recharged in a minute...

roohe fanaa ho gayi...hehehe

coming to the point..do whatever but dont make it "Socha na tha".
And dont increase the entropy in ur life.

hey Kiran dont get married in a hurry... who knows if u two were made for each other.. just give it one try..

^dude dont u IT ppl care for caste system(frankly asking) and customs & tradition or just ishq vishq pyar vyar?aur chalo kar diya shaadi!

cant imagine marrying(if at all) a non-syrian catholic girl.

pathiks said:
hey Kiran dont get married in a hurry... who knows if u two were made for each other.. just give it one try..

No dude. I am not at all in hurry....Infact more cautious about the kind of girl I may get... :grin:

And, Prakash has already answered my question. She is a christian. Hence doesn't want to hurt my parents sentiments/values.

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What if she is already married or worse engaged?

be mature mate, you cannot feel in love without knowing her!
There is no such thing as 'love at first sight'.
I'm not critizing you, but how can you tell the nature of the girl by talking just for 10 minutes!!
Is look so important?????

Never expected this from Kiran... hehe

So buddy... Its just atrration as u allready said....
Love at first sight is foolish and childish....

adi007 said:
What if she is already married or worse engaged?

be mature mate, you cannot feel in love without knowing her!
There is no such thing as 'love at first sight'.
I'm not critizing you, but how can you tell the nature of the girl by talking just for 10 minutes!!
Is look so important?????

I think you have not seen my reply which I gave much earlier....
*www.thinkdigit.com/forum/showpost.php?p=607728&postcount=11

Now it's clear??

hummm...... can someone explain y gals hav more guts than guys when it comes to start ..

gx_saurav said:
Wohooooo....we all need kabab parathe treat then ASAP.

Lucknowites ki her baat pe kabab parathe ! ..Ankhir ye chakar kya hai ?

I wish i can hav some kabab parathe!

Kiran_tech_mania said:
I think you have not seen my reply which I gave much earlier....
*www.thinkdigit.com/forum/showpost.php?p=607728&postcount=11

Now it's clear??

Love happens at first site if its mutual

. And can say definitely if u still remember the person even after years in ur sad and cherishing moments.

Well thats wat really happened with me, she moved out to another place a few months later. Now "why not build a bridge of chances to see where fate lead us"

I guess that moment will come within time. Else i will become a business minded person with everything in life except the one

On the contrary if its one sided then it seems like love but eventually dies out as infatuation :evil:

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Abhishek Dwivedi said:
@kiran
yar i've got one thing to say....many of u might not like what am saying but dats what i find da truth is...

"LOVE NO MORE EXISTS"

I've been through it in ma life and seen it hard ways...everyone luv or like u only because he\she needs u for sum task and not because he\she respects ur feelings....its all useless....
....

I don't think so.

baks17 said:
I don't think so.

Kiran is right somewhat, time changes the way we percieve things.

Love is something that we had in our childhood (remember the first girl that kissed u in cheek in ur childhood, yeah that was luv and was unconditional). Remember the frens u had in childhood, Ajay and Veeru kind(that was frenship with love).

Its just that when we enter teenage, things start to change suddenly and everything compete for survival with supermacy.And only money, s** and a lil bit of relationship can drive us now.

That makes people artificial abt love. Go to some village where people still live for everyday and dont care what tomorrow may bring out. But we care abt tomorrow before even starting today.

May be i was lucky one to had some really cherishing moments of luv and hope the same days will come soon again. I hate wat i hav become today, if only one wish was to be granted i would hav chosen my childhood and school days.

^Right.Now people are living for their own survival,they have stopped caring about others.Also somewhat technology has also become a barrier as people avoid personal contact.The life is already in a fast lane.What will happen after 10 yrs?Nobody will be seen on the streets,only robos.

what a pity.

I think the village people are more happy than our city ones.Though they don't have much tech,but they also don't care about it.

ur 10000 % rght my frnd the village people though they do hav suff tech for them (mob,tv,etc..) how caring N loving r they with each other no matter how stranger ur for them they treat u like there beloved frnd