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Gf issues

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ssk_the_gr8
ssk_the_gr8 Original post #1
May 16, 2010 at 6:00 PM
Mods please close this thread
celldweller1591
May 16, 2010 at 6:34 PM
Its normal dude. Trust me, every guy feels the same at some point in his relationship.
At first, girls and relationships are not like operating systems, that you go and test and then uninstall. =))
Once you get into it, you are equally responsible for everything. Give your relationship sometime. Dont get freak out. You are actually overreacting :). Your mind is not stable bcoz you are thinking too much about this thing. Chill and then give it a thought. I am sure you will get a solution.
In the end, my fav. words :-
"If you fc*k a woman nicely, she will love you for rest of your life but if you love a woman nicely,she will fc*k you for rest of your life !"
ssk_the_gr8
May 16, 2010 at 7:25 PM
Its normal dude. Trust me, every guy feels the same at some point in his relationship.
At first, girls and relationships are not like operating systems, that you go and test and then uninstall. =))
Once you get into it, you are equally responsible for everything. Give your relationship sometime. Dont get freak out. You are actually overreacting :). Your mind is not stable bcoz you are thinking too much about this thing. Chill and then give it a thought. I am sure you will get a solution.
In the end, my fav. words :-
"If you fc*k a woman nicely, she will love you for rest of your life but if you love a woman nicely,she will fc*k you for rest of your life !"

why the hell am i irritated with her, is what i dont get

BTW,awesome quote;-)
celldweller1591
May 16, 2010 at 7:52 PM
its just because she's too serious about this relationship and she is very much into you and on the other hand, you cant make up your mind whether you want to keep up or not. Ask her for some time to think.
skeletor
May 16, 2010 at 9:53 PM
Who can help you.
Rahim
Rahim #8
May 16, 2010 at 10:08 PM
why the hell am i irritated with her, is what i dont get
bcoz she has suddenly became your wife rather than your mistress :D
tell her that your 1st love is MAN UTD and then her, she would understand and tone down :D
ssk_the_gr8
May 16, 2010 at 10:43 PM
bcoz she has suddenly became your wife rather than your mistress :D
i dont know... guess its true

tell her that your 1st love is MAN UTD and then her, she would understand and tone down :D

she's knows that now... stays away from me the day after which united lose
and try's to come near me the day after which united win... lol cuz i'm sweet to her then :mrgreen::twisted:
krishnandu.sarkar
May 16, 2010 at 10:45 PM
Forget everything. Stop thinking. Let it go as it's going :)
A
adi007 #11
May 16, 2010 at 11:41 PM
I dont understand the modern macho guys .. They want gf but for time-pass/testing ..
Yikes .. according to me its time waste .. 'you like her but not serious' .. hmmm

I suggest you to get serious into a relationship..

The gal loves you so much .. What else you need ..If i were in your place and if i had a job then i would have married her ..

Whats your and the gal's age and what you 2 are doing..?
CA50
CA50 #12
May 17, 2010 at 9:57 AM
don`t go for testing GF its really harmful.

About your case, confessing would be rather a bad idea. instead try to get rid of her slowly. 1st change your behavior toward her slowly.

Hey if she is grt they why are you trying to get rid of her, instead you can continue the relation with her and you can also make her understand that marriage at this point would not be a great idea. Instead you both can concentrate on your respective careers.

PS: I am not a love guru so can`t give you any great suggestion. Hope this will come handy
R
May 17, 2010 at 11:50 AM
I dont understand the modern macho guys .. They want gf but for time-pass/testing ..
Yikes .. according to me its time waste .. 'you like her but not serious' .. hmmm

I suggest you to get serious into a relationship..

The gal loves you so much .. What else you need ..If i were in your place and if i had a job then i would have married her ..

Whats your and the gal's age and what you 2 are doing..?
+1
chahe jo tumhe...pure dil se.....
furious_gamer
May 17, 2010 at 1:10 PM
@OP

Just drag her away from your life. Its safe for her.;-)

Rather try to screw with a gal who is also want to have a timepass relationship..:grin::grin:

If you want to get into serious relationsh1t, then go get her, but try to make her understand marriage is too much for a month and its all happen. So either go with serious relationsh1t or go get a flirty girl who dont want a serious sh1t..:grin::grin::grin:

P.S : Dont ever think about these. This will eat your head and leave you brainless. Also makes you go deep down in your career or studies.:cool::twisted:
ssk_the_gr8
May 18, 2010 at 12:25 AM
ok.....
so there are 2 chain of thoughts here......
she loves me a lot so i should love her back..
& pushing her away

i like the idea of pushing her away........:D

one of the main reasons for this is something i've recently noticed
now that the infatuation is over and i talk a lot to her
we have few common interests...
we listen to different types of music
we watch different movies...
we're interested in different subjects
we have very few things in common...
which kinda makes me understand why i'm running out of stuff to talk to her...
the only thing i can see is i give this a little time & see where it goes...

right now i'm chatting with her while typing this :D ... she's talking away about some friend's friend's issue... i keep saying yes,yes & yes... not fun anymore
DarkDante
DarkDante #18
May 18, 2010 at 9:28 PM
^lol true....kya prof hai yaar who...
skeletor
skeletor #20
May 19, 2010 at 12:46 AM
Proof? Link please?
For this one needs to come at our IRC channel. #krow @ irc.freenode.net
Or simply click the link in my signature. Come preferably during 6pm to 12pm.
a_medico
a_medico #21
May 19, 2010 at 12:56 AM
End the relationship. This relationship won't work for you. Compromise doesn't seem like a good solution. Will ruin both's future. By saying no, she will be hurt for few days....might hate other guys etc...but in the long run it will be a good decision for her too.

Next time you like a girl, get into a relationship only if you mean it, now that you are an experienced person!

As I am typing this...I feel like I am an Agony Aunt. Have never done this before. Wouldn't do it usually as its none of my business but have I seen your Id somewhere? Maybe on the movie thread. So thought of replying. Don't listen to anybody. Listen to yourself. All the best.

Oh by the way this ones from The Beach - 'When you develop an infatuation for someone you always find a reason to believe that this is exactly the person for you. It doesn't need to be a good reason. Taking photographs of the night sky, for example. Now, in the long run, that's just the kind of dumb, irritating habit that would cause you to split up. But in the haze of infatuation, it's just what you've been searching for all these years.'
ssk_the_gr8
May 19, 2010 at 6:42 AM
@a_medico

yeah, i do goto the movie thread..have watched a lot of movies on you people's recommendation

even i'm leaning towards ending it..
and how the hell do i know that i mean it, and i should enter in the relationship?
at the beginning, during the chase , when you're infatuated.. the girls seems perfect in every way!!!
Cool Buddy
May 19, 2010 at 11:40 AM
being insensitive is the last thing I wish to do, but man..... You are in a mess
confused
confused #25
May 21, 2010 at 12:59 AM
Hey times sure are changing.... a couple of yrs back there were love story threads stretching for months, now look at damngoodman's thread only 7 days!!! CLOSED!!! Love Story Over, Chapter Khatam!!! Truly this must be LOVE AAJ KAL!!!
ssk_the_gr8
May 21, 2010 at 7:06 AM
guys i finally did it
ended it
my heart was not into it

so this thread can be closed
rkneo11
rkneo11 #27
May 21, 2010 at 7:25 AM
take her out to someplace and talk from your heart... If she really digs you she'd understand...
A
adi007 #30
May 21, 2010 at 7:40 PM
how did she behaved when you said let break up ..?
Hmmm... Its better to beloved rather than to love someone ...
Faun
Faun #31
May 21, 2010 at 9:18 PM
^^well...that doesn't work for every one. A lot of compromise. Best thing is mutual. Its difficult, like those enzyme activation sites :p

And the person who started this thread should never hav gone for this girl if he was going to end it like this. Come on dude u saw her beyond her imperfections. Now just becoz u r bored suddenly u r nit picking reasons to do away with her. Great ! I hope u dont get bored with the next girl.
Krow
Krow #32
May 21, 2010 at 9:48 PM
Well, good that you ended it before causing her too much misery. I pity the poor girl really. confused is right. Lots of commitment issues these days.

I hope the next girl doesn't get bored with you.
skeletor
skeletor #33
May 21, 2010 at 10:18 PM
Fickle....
ssk_the_gr8
May 22, 2010 at 6:47 AM
the break up wasn't that bad..
she had also noticed the changes in me
1st of all she cried a lot but later on she said she realised that she had forced herself upon me and not given me space....

so i guess it was not only my fault.. she was also at fault