Girly problem help!!!

Help required!!

Having a major problem nowadays. A girl nearby is really creating creating havoc for me. She could not understand even the simplest of the mathematical problems(such as Cross multiplication, Ratio&Proportion, finding value of x in a equation) and is daily coming to me to solve these. She didn't study anything of maths for the whole year(excusing that she don't understand anything) and is telling me to make her understand. I couldn't deny her coz her father is a friend of my father and ofcourse neighbour. She takes more than 1 and half hour time daily. It started from 5 days.What will I do?? :cry:

Please tell the solution.

Tell her to come with atleast four people and then you can only teach them with some tuition fee.

Profit !!!

I am not a tutor but a HS student

Hmmm.......pretend to be ill and tell your parents about this.

From the thread title, I thought you also have some "My Love Story" kind of problems

J

do something.....
u dont hav another chance.

Bookworm said:
Having a major problem nowadays. A girl nearby is really creating creating havoc for me. She could not understand even the simplest of the mathematical problems(such as Cross multiplication, Ratio&Proportion, finding value of x in a equation) and is daily coming to me to solve these. She is reading in Class VIII. She didn't study anything of maths for the whole year(excusing that she don't understand anything) and is telling me to make her understand. I couldn't deny her coz her father is a friend of my father and ofcourse neighbour. She takes more than 1 and half hour time daily. It started from 5 days.What will I do?? Please tell the solution. Oh I could not wrote more she is waiting for me in the Drawing room.

So, what IS ur problem?

1>U don't like her
2>U don't want to teach her
3>U don't like Math either

gah...when i saw the thread title "GIRLY PROBLEM HELP"...i thought way to differently.

anyways, assuming you want to avoid her, just say your problem to your parents first.. then inform that girl that you are busy doing something (even if you're not)....do that a couple of days and you should be escaping her.

Do u like her??lol..kidding

Just suggest him a good math book and say her to read it all...

Slap her...tension free next day

Krazzy Warrior said:
Do u like her??lol..kidding

Just suggest him a good math book and say her to read it all...

Why are you contradicting? :???:

^^^ OMG!! her..ok...

get angry to the limit that she swells with tears

Teach her the wrong maths, give wrong answer, make BODMAS SAMDOB for her, she'll stop coming to u after she realizes that u dunno $hit either! Simple

Plasma_Snake said:
Teach her the wrong maths, give wrong answer, make BODMAS SAMDOB for her, she'll stop coming to u after she realizes that u dunno $hit either! Simple

If I do that her parents will think myself to be a noob in Maths and still taken Sc in HS. I don't want others to think like that about me. :-|

lol...don't hurt her by false knowledge. just tell frankly that you hav lot to study for your exams too, tell her to go to some professional tutor.

red_devil said:
gah...when i saw the thread title "GIRLY PROBLEM HELP"...i thought way to differently.

Hahaha.. me too.. :lol:

Anyway, I think you should tell her the truth (whatever it maybe) instead of making lame exuses and telling your parents and involving them.

Be straight and frank. Talk to her and say that you haf your own work and cannot spare more than '(int a)' hours/minutes a day

If that doesn't solve it, then talk to her parents and explain that you haf your own life and you may not be able to her whenever she is in need of advice or help. Believe me, being frank saves a lot of future troubles.

Go search around your place for mathematics tuition and suggest that to her parents and say that since you haf your work you may not be able to give time to her in which case she may not be able to learn. A better option is to get her to some tuitions which will haf fixed timing and duration which will surely do good to her. Tell them that getting the fundamentals right is very crucial as she will soon be giving her board exams. Hence she will need constant attention which you may not be able to give her.

This way you are neither distancing yourselves from that family nor are you giving them an indication that you are 'dumb'

Hopefully they will understand your position and get her admitted to some tuition.

In case u r true to ur username and in this case the books are HS course related, go to ur dad.
Tell him u can't concentrate on ur studies for her. U r unable to provide those extra efforts to ur own study. And ur problem will be solved.
Every dad is selfish enough about his son's study.

But, I still can't get ur problem. HS exam has started and u r not appearing for it, means u r in 11th. Then why don't u want to show her some maths work.
Better ask her to come twice a week (sat-sun afternoon). Phirbhi, why would u avoid?? Why...hmmm...

Just say her directly that u don't have time to help her in studies. Be straight forward. You can't risk ur studies for her.

make out with her or better just do it with her but remember to wear protection. bookworm this is ur only chance.

jxcess3891 said:
make out with her or better just do it with her but remember to wear protection. bookworm this is ur only chance.

YEP
*www.huffingtonpost.com/theblog/archive/pedo.jpg

im kidding btw

jxcess3891 said:
make out with her or better just do it with her but remember to wear protection. bookworm this is ur only chance.

stupid she is small girl 8th std , do u have any brain !!?? :evil:

HEY BOOKWORM change the thread title please i was shocked confusing with title & subject

i am so jealous : i dint had any kind of situation like this in my early days , off course my father had friends who has daughters but they never send to me for studying i dint mind that days

But now i am feeling guilty that i did something wrong so that only they dint send their daughter

ALL BEST -- These are best memories of the life

damngoodman999 said:
stupid she is small girl 8th std , do u have any brain !!??

HEY BOOKWORM change the thread title please i was shocked confusing with title & subject

i am so jealous : i dint had any kind of situation like this in my early days , off course my father had friends who has daughters but they never send to me for studying i dint mind that days

But now i am feeling guilty that i did something wrong so that only they dint send their daughter

ALL BEST -- These are best memories of the life

Oh yeah. She's in VIIIth. I didn't see that. So that wud make the guy a paedophile. Now I understand the joke in that nazi picture.

Agreed ,Thread title needs change as soon as possible .I was also confused.

Title doesn't match what your real problem or its a way of attracting us in this thread .Usually ,I leave threads with love etc problems lol.

in b/w I feel you should be frank at this stage or loss will be yours .Use your brain and act quickly .

I was carried away by the title too....in my opinion, you should rather talk with your father that you do not want to teach her anymore...tell them that she needs a professional tutor not a "bhaiya" type....if your parents understand you then it's well and good...otherwise it will be bad for you...

beat her when she does not understand anything.... from the next day she will not come...

every time she does not understand anything give her a slap :lol:

As a gentleman you should help a damsel in distress. Patience is normally rewarded.

Teaching her is the best way out. Know what, you will get even better in Mathematics.

M

Better ask her to come twice a week (sat-sun afternoon) and help her in mathemeatics

rhitwick said:
In case u r true to ur username and in this case the books are HS course related, go to ur dad.
Tell him u can't concentrate on ur studies for her. U r unable to provide those extra efforts to ur own study. And ur problem will be solved.
Every dad is selfish enough about his son's study.

But, I still can't get ur problem. HS exam has started and u r not appearing for it, means u r in 11th. Then why don't u want to show her some maths work.
Better ask her to come twice a week (sat-sun afternoon). Phirbhi, why would u avoid?? Why...hmmm...

I am apperaring XII CBSE but I have 5 days left for Eng. exam which is easy. They know that and therefore sending her to me.

A

lywyre said:
Teaching her is the best way out. Know what, you will get even better in Mathematics.

A HS student getting better at maths by teaching 8th grade maths!

...

Just tell her that you know a good tutor and if she would like to join him. But don't hurt her by:
1. Slapping
2. Giving false knowledge
3. Making out with her

as suggested by some of great people here

(Just kidding guys)

I wonder what I would have done if I had been in such a problem... (The answer would surely be among the above three!

)

R

try it once..twice if she still dose not understand burst out crying

simple yaar,just tell her parents that she needs a professional tutor.

o0h yeah misleading title btw..

jxcess3891 said:
make out with her or better just do it with her but remember to wear protection. bookworm this is ur only chance.

i dont exist said:
YEP
*www.huffingtonpost.com/theblog/archive/pedo.jpg

im kidding btw

krates said:
beat her when she does not understand anything.... from the next day she will not come...

every time she does not understand anything give her a slap

Hahahha.. basta***.. :lol:

Ecstasy said:
Hahahha.. basta***..

mujhe kaha ?????

see the final verdict is

bring another gal to home for teaching u teach that girl in front for her , then all things works fine

ALL THE GIRLS ARE SAME --> They all possessive , so she wont .

BOOKWORM , please stop this conversation i am really feeling more ,,, Like this things never happening to my life

My life su(ks

Ok I end the discussion. Please don't post anymore I have got the solution. I told her father about it and he is not sending her anymore from today. :-D

She didn't study anything of maths for the whole year(excusing that she don't understand anything) and is telling me to make her understand. I couldn't deny her coz her father is a friend of my father and ofcourse neighbour. She takes more than 1 and half hour time daily. It started from 5 days.What will I do?? Please tell the solution.

Possibility 1 - I feel sorry for you, but that girl is the biggest IDIOT.

Possibility 2 (which I feel unlikely, lol) - She's got the hots for you.

told her father about it and she is not sending her anymore from today.

Father is a girl, ZOMG, yeh "woh" toh nahi?

Possibility 2 (which I feel unlikely, lol) - She's got the hots for you.

@ comp@ddict

did u had a chances like Bookworm "the thread starter" , did any gal came to u for studying

Bookworm said:
she is not sending her anymore from today.

Dude, atleast pay some attention to what you type

Anyway, glad your prob is solved

lolzzz thread.

Well dude I feel you should help her, no harm in helping someone who really needs help

.

@ comp@ddict

did u had a chances like Bookworm "the thread starter" , did any gal came to u for studying

Oh man I WISH!!!!

I have had similar experience as u r having while i was in 11th.
the only difference is the student was a boy in class 7th, and was son of my dad''d super boss.
try to think on these lines.
minimize your labor, give her a lot of homework and if she doesn't solve it, doesn't move up.
Don't use your brain much in explaining her theories, just use ur brain to check if any of her answers are correct.
Give her time once in a week.If possible, go and teach her in her house( you will be safer) and use sentences like, i am wasting my time with u. u need a full time tution. If her parents listen to it, its good. Make them feel like u r being harassed.

After a few classes, you can directly talk to their parents.

Beside, the best option is talk to her parents, tell them
"i am capable of teaching her, but she requires 5 times the time a normal student uses. Hence i am sorry but i can't give her that much time. i will surely help her after exams in holidays, till then please get her a real tutor."

Remember, her dad id ur dad's boss, so you need to be diplomatic to not to create problems on the dad level.

Lastly, i am going to share one important point i have learnt from my experiences.
"if its not business, its totally safe to abuse your boss with a smile."

Do tell me the results if you plan to implement it.
best of luck.

INS-ANI said:
I have had similar experience as u r having while i was in 11th.
the only difference is the student was a boy in class 7th, and was son of my dad''d super boss.
try to think on these lines.
minimize your labor, give her a lot of homework and if she doesn't solve it, doesn't move up.
Don't use your brain much in explaining her theories, just use ur brain to check if any of her answers are correct.
Give her time once in a week.If possible, go and teach her in her house( you will be safer) and use sentences like, i am wasting my time with u. u need a full time tution. If her parents listen to it, its good. Make them feel like u r being harassed.

After a few classes, you can directly talk to their parents.

Beside, the best option is talk to her parents, tell them
"i am capable of teaching her, but she requires 5 times the time a normal student uses. Hence i am sorry but i can't give her that much time. i will surely help her after exams in holidays, till then please get her a real tutor."

Remember, her dad id ur dad's boss, so you need to be diplomatic to not to create problems on the dad level.

Lastly, i am going to share one important point i have learnt from my experiences.
"if its not business, its totally safe to abuse your boss with a smile."

Do tell me the results if you plan to implement it.
best of luck.

No I have already solved it. I told to the father of the girl about my exams. He agreed to it. BTW thankyou for your kind reply.