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Guys Beware!!!
Hi friends, i am a thinkdigit regular, but i am posting under an temporary ID for reasons
that you soon understand. And like most of the TDians (Read "Do you have a girlfriend
thread"), though i am aware of the workings of the world, i am quite naive and inexperienced
when it comes to matters pertaining to the opposite sex (i am talking about practical
knowledge, not theoretical). I recently had an experience (a painful one), which made me
realise something i didnt quite know before:that some girls (almost always these are ones
that are good looking) are extremely indecent, meaning that they will flirt their ways into
the lives of guys, have them hoping that shes really interested in him. But only to turn him
down when proposed to. That is, these girls are similar to the guys having more than their
share of GFs!!! For them more the number of guys running behind them, more the bhaav they get
from their friends. In short they are out to have fun (at your expense), no commitments for
them.
I got the worst kind, the one that acts decent, and mind you this one was a very good
actor....
I have to mention here that:
I]i was extremely stupid to get involved with this girl in the first place
II]i ignored all the warning signs, ie was blinded by the affection i had for her
III]few ex-friends of mine knew her true nature, yet encouraged me to pursue her (bloody
retards, and yes i am no longer friends them)
IV]i am in a hostel, in a place far away from civilization, so had very few options anyway
But when i finally realized the truth, i initially felt pain, followed by anger. I have not
yet decided to whether to remain a hopeless romantic, or become a flirty casanova.... truth
be told i realized that i have no time for girls, cant let my studies/career suffer.
My only consolation is that i am a bit wiser now... and so i decided to share it here, so
that others dont make the same mistake i made....
Signs she maybe a flirt:
1>will make eye contact too often, decent girls mind their own business
2>will seem overfriendly, always display a huge smile
3>will always be on the phone, clue is that she may recharge too often, or have some
unlimited plan active
4>her productivity will be very less, often she maybe disinterested in what shes doing,
whether it be academics or any other field
5>there will be very few signs of true friendship (dont mistake her coming on to you as
friendship)
6>you often hear she is associated with other guys
7>will gladly accept all the money you spend on her. though may offer to pay, if she knows
you are not very into her/too good for her
8>will not tell you too much about herself, eg, her past, etc (this point is important)
9>will have serious issues with other girls, authority, etc
10>lies will be told constantly, be smart to spot them early
thats all i can think of...
please keep your comments flowing...
PS:-i have already made a big fool of myself, hence the assumed username
Hi friends, i am a thinkdigit regular, but i am posting under an temporary ID for reasons
that you soon understand. And like most of the TDians (Read "Do you have a girlfriend
thread"), though i am aware of the workings of the world, i am quite naive and inexperienced
when it comes to matters pertaining to the opposite sex (i am talking about practical
knowledge, not theoretical). I recently had an experience (a painful one), which made me
realise something i didnt quite know before:that some girls (almost always these are ones
that are good looking) are extremely indecent, meaning that they will flirt their ways into
the lives of guys, have them hoping that shes really interested in him. But only to turn him
down when proposed to. That is, these girls are similar to the guys having more than their
share of GFs!!! For them more the number of guys running behind them, more the bhaav they get
from their friends. In short they are out to have fun (at your expense), no commitments for
them.
I got the worst kind, the one that acts decent, and mind you this one was a very good
actor....
I have to mention here that:
I]i was extremely stupid to get involved with this girl in the first place
II]i ignored all the warning signs, ie was blinded by the affection i had for her
III]few ex-friends of mine knew her true nature, yet encouraged me to pursue her (bloody
retards, and yes i am no longer friends them)
IV]i am in a hostel, in a place far away from civilization, so had very few options anyway
But when i finally realized the truth, i initially felt pain, followed by anger. I have not
yet decided to whether to remain a hopeless romantic, or become a flirty casanova.... truth
be told i realized that i have no time for girls, cant let my studies/career suffer.
My only consolation is that i am a bit wiser now... and so i decided to share it here, so
that others dont make the same mistake i made....
Signs she maybe a flirt:
1>will make eye contact too often, decent girls mind their own business
2>will seem overfriendly, always display a huge smile
3>will always be on the phone, clue is that she may recharge too often, or have some
unlimited plan active
4>her productivity will be very less, often she maybe disinterested in what shes doing,
whether it be academics or any other field
5>there will be very few signs of true friendship (dont mistake her coming on to you as
friendship)
6>you often hear she is associated with other guys
7>will gladly accept all the money you spend on her. though may offer to pay, if she knows
you are not very into her/too good for her
8>will not tell you too much about herself, eg, her past, etc (this point is important)
9>will have serious issues with other girls, authority, etc
10>lies will be told constantly, be smart to spot them early
thats all i can think of...
please keep your comments flowing...
PS:-i have already made a big fool of myself, hence the assumed username
.
