Is looking Handsome A MUST for todays World?

Title says all..

wht do u think guys??

Brain or Beauty???

Brain, what guys want

Luks, what gals want

Now coperate also wants luks .. wht say??

Well.. it all depends then... ;-)

Neither looks nor brain. It's purse that matters.

T

Brain

One thing I learned from Ashish (Suave_guy) of this forum few years back is that looks as well as brain matters. Without brain, u will fail in today's competitive world, & if U don't have a personality & charm....no one will pay attention to u.

The only thing u have in every situation with u is your persoanlity, verbal skills & brain. It's very important to learn how one can use all this.

Brain & looks both matter. You need to have a charming personality, a good attitude & a beautiful mind today to be successful.

Oh! & you really need to know how to talk to & make gals comfortable, they are everywhere these days, so if u can win them...most of your problems are solved.

pure and helping heart

and iam sure this thread is going to run some pages

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just like you ... Gx..

charmy....*gigasmilies.googlepages.com/3.gif

naveen_reloaded said:
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just like you ... Gx..

charmy....*gigasmilies.googlepages.com/3.gif

Abe that's not me, that Prof. Utonium....this is me.

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thats clever....

so u ahve brain and beauty...

digit`s idol... LOL...

no offence..

naveen_reloaded said:
thats clever....

so u ahve brain and beauty...

digit`s idol... LOL...

no offence..

Now, I should not brag about me....but yes U r absolutely right*gigasmilies.googlepages.com/9.gif...lolz...

The only idol I have is my dad, sisters & my Ex Boss

looks , only up to a certain age , thats all . brain -until you get a job . personality -all through your life

. seriously , looks dont matter much ,brain does , it only comes in marriage , but that too , not much , you just need avg looks , thats all ,cause marrying a beautiful lady is not important , but marrying a good girl is .

ultimately , love wins over look , brain wins over instincts (at times )and personality gives you good life . which is greater than all of the above

well said x3060

x3060 said:
looks , only up to a certain age , thats all . brain -until you get a job . personality -all through your life . seriously , looks dont matter much ,brain does , it only comes in marriage , but that too , not much , you just need avg looks , thats all ,cause marrying a beautiful lady is not important , but marrying a good girl is .

No, wrong. Love is an illusion between those with a GF & those without one. Someone who has 10 GFs will never believe in love till his marriage, while those without a GF or not confident enough with gals will say "I m looking for my real love so i m not making GFs"

Here is teh thing, if u have brains to succedd in reel life of computers, studies...exams etc, then why not use the brain in real life to enhance your personality.

ultimately , love wins over look , brain wins over instincts (at times )and personality gives you good life . which is greater than all of the above

Brain is what gives u instincts.

x3060 said:
looks , only up to a certain age , thats all . brain -until you get a job . personality -all through your life . seriously , looks dont matter much ,brain does , it only comes in marriage , but that too , not much , you just need avg looks , thats all ,cause marrying a beautiful lady is not important , but marrying a good girl is .

ultimately , love wins over look , brain wins over instincts (at times )and personality gives you good life . which is greater than all of the above

very well said

getting a girl friend is not a big thing in life mate . . but building a stable life platform for your kids is .

ya but after building such a platform.. its the girl who is going to blow up if she is not good.. LOL

its like this in life , early in school you value your friends and marks more , then comes "the student of the teacher"factor ,mid school , college ."the girl"factor comes , then you search for jobs , then you will see that your parents have raised you so nicely , that you want to raise your kids far better than them , and all of a sudden , the look factor diminishes and personality and maturity takes place in life .

then you will understand that the biggest treasure in life is not those 1000 gf that you flirted around but your loving wife and family.
now thats why , some say , choose wisely when you chose a girl . it can rain death up on your life or it can bring heaven to your living

x3060 said:
getting a girl friend is not a big thing in life mate . . but building a stable life platform for your kids is .

Ya, & I think for kids u need a wife...for which u either need a GF or a gal atleast

...

For me, looks are a part of over all personality. When U go somewhere, or meet someone for the first time, it's all your looks & personality which they see. Your dressing style, verbal communication skills etc

now thats why , some say , choose wisely when you chose a girl . it can rain death up on your life or it can bring heaven to your living

Something i learned from my last experienced

. That's why one of my next year resolution is to make as many friend gals as possible like i do today, but not get emotional or in love with anyone of them because it's not worth it. Don't get emotional in a relationship, if a gal likes u she will like u whether u r her BF or not, if she doesn't then....move on.

boy , you are making a fundamental mistake .
to build a succesful married life , you need not flirt with girls . you just need to be a FRIEND with them. else , think about it ,our parents ,living together for 20-25 years together would have been the greatest flirters of the entire history .

x3060 said:
to build a succesful married life , you need not flirt with girls . you just need to be a FRIEND with them. .

Ya, this is what I learned this year myself.

Just be friends with gals & don't expect anything from them.

Do your thing, you own life comes first. They are good enough to manage there own life.

Don't get emotional for any gal, other then your wife. Care for your friend gals as a friend. They don't need u always....

& tell them straight away on 2nd or 3rd meeting "I m not interested in making u my GirlFriend, but only good friends cos right now even as friends we will be doing the same thing, caring about each other, helping each other etc, is that ok with u"

Although if the gal wants to get cozy with me, I have no problem

Looks get you through the door...brains keep you in the door...unfair for the uggos but fact of life...

faraaz said:
Looks get you through the door...brains keep you in the door...unfair for the uggos but fact of life...

Right said....but brain keeps u inside the room...what would u do standing at the door only//

aap logon ne meri aankhen khol di.aa main bhi girlfriend banaunga. but koi milti hi nahi.

fun2sh said:
aap logon ne meri aankhen khol di.aa main bhi girlfriend banaunga. but koi milti hi nahi.

How old r u? Remembar, No GF till 12th & Multiple good friend gals during graduation or similar time....

gx_saurav said:
Right said....but brain keeps u inside the room...what would u do standing at the door only//

ROFL ...

Being handsome does help you initially, no doubt about it(this is more so in case of girls though, we boys still need to have brains).But in the end, its what you are that matters.Not all can look like filmi heroes.

and you think heroes are handsome . . man , there are tons of makeups being poured. :-D

@gx
i m just 5year old. oh not physically but mentally :mrgreen:

wel i m currently in 3rd sem of my BE n yet i hav found no1.some good gals r taken.some good lookin girls r arrogant n foolish n thinks they r only the smart 1s, so i dont speak to them. while other good girls r tooooooooooo shy.

In todays college, gud looking gals attitude has changed in some matter coz..many boys are eager to talk to them[especially the Mechanical stupid students]..So those gals attitude is like "ive better boys to deal with". So i say almost 90% of gud looking gals are gone arrogant maily due to their looks. While most good hearted gals are one which is not that attractive as that arrogand gals.
This is with ma personnel experience.

And even though most guys talk to those beauties[spme guys spend most of the time like this], none says i love her. Coz they are not sure if she is as open nd friendly or...to any other which he dun know or sure of.
None has the courrage of goin line with such gals...

Whoa! great discussion goin on here..

not great but useless :-D

I think both Looks and Brains matter, but if I am allowed to take only one of the two, I will definitely go for Brains. Good brains can be used to CREATE good looks.

looks matter for 20% and brain for 80%

Once the youth is over u still can count on brain.

And yeah someone forgot the heart factor, a good heart will always keep hold of u in the race of life.

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Put under the pressure of walking in your shoes (Caught in the undertow just caught in the undertow) Every step that I take is another mistake to you (Caught in the undertow just caught in the undertow) I've become so numb I can't feel you there Become so tired so much more aware I'm becoming this all I want to do Is be more like me and be less like you
Can't you see that you're smothering me Holding too tightly afraid to lose control Cause everything that you thought I would be Has fallen apart right in front of you (Caught in the undertow just caught in the undertow)
Every step that I take is another mistake to you (Caught in the undertow just caught in the undertow) And every second I waste is more than I can take I've become so numb I can't feel you there Become so tired so much more aware I'm becoming this all I want to do Is be more like me and be less like you And I know I may end up failing too But I know You were just like me with someone disappointed in you I've become so numb I can't feel you there Become so tired so much more aware I'm becoming this all I want to do Is be more like me and be less like you I've become so numb I can't feel you there I'm tired of being what you want me to be I've become so numb I can't feel you there I'm tired of being what you want me to be
..what ive done ...whtch when i clean this way ,.. so that mercy .. and wash all way.. what i've done .. done.. the race wwwwwhhhhhaaaaaaattttt iiiiivvvv''''eeeeee ddddddoooonnnneeee .i start again and whatever to see the sun ..i cant do nothing.. thime being whatu want me to be.. dont know what u expect in me every step that i take is another mistake to you .. i can feel you there.. all i want you too ... cant u see that u r smothering me everything u thought i would be .. every step that i take is and every second i believe..She doesnt replied even single email of mine .. just because she doesnt have a computer or she knows **** about computers .. i can live without her forever in leu of a fast unlimited internet connection and a 8800GTX computer with atleast 19"WS ..but when it will come to fcuk whom i will fcuk i cant put my dcik inside LAN cable (i mean usb port)...i know this post is long enough and aravind_n20 and pathiks left when i was writing this post or many mew replies had come , might be gx one's . i want be the one .. that person in tech news section was good who posted about Media monkey , i m listioning Linkin park all albums in one all pirated coz i dont buy original , i hate piracy but i had paid if i can . all random tracks in full volume . keyboard ki pat pat , in full silance .. only headphne in 95% volume with utorrent , greedy torrent (i love piracy, i had told already , i am downloading Guiter hero so that i can break my this keyboard also .. )Mediamonkey , Avast , i love avast free edition , coz i dont have money to buy avast paid edition . listioning Shadow of the day - Minuts to Midnight - LP ( i has already been 32 minuts since midnight ) i also hate Limp Biz kit , i love alternative rock , u must be thinking that why i am writing such a long post now , i love to write and to listion the sound of 'pat''pat' from the keyboard + linkin park song .
and what i was talking , haan about girlfriend .. i love my girlfriend i cant just watch porn or other thing ..Now playing - In Between - MTM - LP ..(guss it is in between of good post).. i want the real girlfriend so that i can discuss about my life , computers , doctors , (not this actually but she is intrested in doctors . and blah blah ) cell phones , the only days i helped her was once in 8th i passed her cheats , i completed her computer project
in 9th , just a mouse click on her computer ..now playing Bleed it out - MTM - Linkin Park .. i haveno idea about girlfriends .. i m uploading a screenshot of now which is of no use , but for fun i have taken the shot , u can look if you wish ..now playing Given up - MTM- LP ..i have a really crappy system i dont like to play sims 2 with lags , i hate 512 MB of ram . from sims i remembered that i have been playing sims from a long time , i really love sims game , i have created a family in sims in which i have made myself as father and her name as the obvious mother in her name k j i i t h s a these letters are there , we have a 2 year old kid whose name is bobby ( i am horrible in thinking names ) if you have better name please email me your 'better' name + your phone number with your complete name and nick name to max.demon.m[at]gmail[dot]com i am writing this because digit is becoming perfect place for spammers they get many eails from this method and sell it online .i am the difrentiest coz i litrary kiss my phone and other things (except SMPS and power card for sure ) might be jikitsha had seen me kissing .. Now playing Hands Held High MTM - LP .. my phone , she dont know that we three can live together . i love both of them equally .. (phone is more) i haven't discussed the ancient art of kamasutra with any girl , i bet nobody knows positions except those shown in porn , i am in the class who knows the most about the art to making love .. they only know dciks and psusies pluginn them correctly.. Now playing..the little things give you away MTM - LP.. i dont think if she marries with other boy (man) will know any new positions other than shown in pron i have a massive HDD in class but doznt matter many have 300 ,320 Gb , but i have filled with valuble content , 50GB of Movies (good movies if american pie is good ) + 15 GB of pron , only 30 GB of games , 10 GB operating systems , 15 GB Setups , ~20 GB of Softwares . 20 GB of cracks and keygens ..999999 TB of Warez haha from this i remember american pie is the movie i used to like , if u have watched american pie u must notice that my character is more like Flinch , Paul Flintch .. from american pie i remember Genelia D'Souja , She is cute and have lovely smile , i wanted to have her as Girlfriend but it is not biologically possible because her biological age is 20 and my biologiikal age is 14 . my other friend told that does she have th[CENSORED]es ? i told no , i haven't seen but still i know . she has an exellent performance in the movie Boys . i am not getting topics what to write..Now playing the Most favourite Linkin Park - Hybrid Theory - In The END!!!!!! .. i always wanted to earn money as i wanted to buy a bike to do stunts and to fall for her ..
bbut it doesnt even matter how hard you try. things are the way they were be4 u will recoznise me amymore , in the end it doesnt even matter ..
i put my trust and you pushed me far as i can go , i ve put my trust and yoou follow this there is only one thing you should know , but in the end it doesnt even matter , ..i also love the sound of mouse clicking ..Now playing ..Points of authority..LP..HT..i also love image shack , i once tried to upload 700 mb image of the galaxy in imageshace . i hated digit search feature fromm beginning .i know noone will read till here coz of 4 reason
1. they will be confused about what the hell i m writing
2. they will cry
3. they will say WTF and scroll down
4.they will skip this post altogether

and this has been too long , my ..now playing cure for the itch ..- LP - HT ..hands are paining and iv'e ran out of ideas .

Start time 12:04 ... End Time 1:12 IST

Read the whole Post , Dont just pass by , even if you dont understand

and for the ontopic question , in short

"Yes"

..Now Playing Pushing Me Away .. LP- HT..

EDIT : Doublepost , btw now playing a place of my head linkin park HT

time 1:18 IST

did u write it ?????????????

looking handsome is only necessary for the socially insecure

^^ 4 men????

4 women... ya ok...

fun2sh said:
wel i m currently in 3rd sem of my BE n yet i hav found no1.some good gals r taken.some good lookin girls r arrogant n foolish n thinks they r only the smart 1s, so i dont speak to them. while other good girls r tooooooooooo shy.

In todays college, gud looking gals attitude has changed in some matter coz..many boys are eager to talk to them[especially the Mechanical stupid students]..So those gals attitude is like "ive better boys to deal with". So i say almost 90% of gud looking gals are gone arrogant maily due to their looks. While most good hearted gals are one which is not that attractive as that arrogand gals.
This is with ma personnel experience.

And even though most guys talk to those beauties[spme guys spend most of the time like this], none says i love her. Coz they are not sure if she is as open nd friendly or...to any other which he dun know or sure of.
None has the courrage of goin line with such gals...

U wanan get girls, there are only 2 things u both need to do

1) Learn to be good listeners. Whether it is a good gal or beautiful sexy gal, she is a gal after all
2) Be confident in whatever u do...

looking handsome is only necessary for the socially insecure

kya baat kahi hai bhai...wah wah

ya , i have written , gx saurav is nooking .. now playing .. nothing..

have u read gx saurav? it is crap but funny

^^maxy,get a psychiatrist!! I am not kidding!.

personality is wat matters more than anything

so u dont want brains ???

Personality kinda includes brains...I maen, its realy hard to have a good personality with all the intelligence of a door knob...

And even if you dont have the features and things of a model, guys CAN take care of their appearance...you know, dress right...get a suitable haircut, accessorize, things like that...I find that even if I'm wearing chattri clothes, a cool haircut/styling and some good sunnies make a lot of difference...

And most important of all, its important for a guy to carry himself well so he comes off as sophisticated and knowledgeable...its no use having all those brains and you still come off as some Joe Bloggs.

Hmm...yeah..

woah faraz.
can any1 tel where can i go to get a good sexy hair style in BANGALORE n how much wil it cost. i hav very good hair but not a good style :wink:

The_Devil_Himself said:
^^maxy,get a psychiatrist!! I am not kidding!.

Maxy dude what is ur age?? U seem to be too ultra-sensitive..
And yea you should consider devil's suggestion.

desiibond said:
Neither looks nor brain. It's purse that matters.

+1

faraaz said:
Personality kinda includes brains...I maen, its realy hard to have a good personality with all the intelligence of a door knob...

*gigasmilies.googlepages.com/24.gif

And most important of all, its important for a guy to carry himself well so he comes off as sophisticated and knowledgeable...its no use having all those brains and you still come off as some Joe Bloggs.

U sure we are not brothers lost in Khumb ka mela *gigasmilies.googlepages.com/10.gif

whos joe blogs

*smilies.sofrayt.com/^/aiw/offtopic.gif

aravind_n20 said:
In todays college, gud looking gals attitude has changed in some matter coz..many boys are eager to talk to them[especially the Mechanical stupid students]..So those gals attitude is like "ive better boys to deal with".

dude, thats a very rare thing to happen.

Mech. guys & eager to talk to girls? NO WAY.

maybe eagar to tease the crap out other dept. noobs

, but not TALK to them.

btw are you of CS dept.?

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"Is looking Handsome A MUST for todays World?"

no.

your dressing code, the way you talk, all these things matter.

as faraaz said

a good personality and being energetic is what scores!there is no benefits for those who are pumping iron and steroids!expect a short life then!

being brainy or not is for tech professionals.normal people can sustain with a average IQ.all of you compare this intelligence as necessity thing of IT field.grow up! there are more core areas than IT field!

naveen_reloaded said:
so u dont want brains ???

Read my comment...I never said Brains are an inconvenience....I just said personality over the other two

Guys i read that max's post:..longest ever post written in this forum i think.it was like watching club fight(fight club film running in the reverse)

Weirdest post i have ever read.

No offence dude.
I dont know what it is.what yöü have written what was oo your mind...

Anyway i didnt read it fully , i was about 2/ 3 and stopped. ..

Again no offence dude

K

well, if i'd have to say, u need to have brains and look tidy, and then nothing can stop you (except the Red Traffic Signal Light, of course

)

thread not for me

The thing is that you don't need to look handsome or dashing or anything of that sort. What you need is to look fine [not unpleasent or ugly] and have a better personality and even better brains to succeed in todays world. But most important of all is to work reallly hard.

looks<personality<brains<hard work

Beauty is for young's and talent is forever...

Anyone agree with me

naveen_reloaded said:
Beauty is for young's and talent is forever...

Anyone agree with me

Yup, aren't we all young right now

Other then Uncle Prakash & Don Raboo

naveen_reloaded said:
Guys i read that max's post:..longest ever post written in this forum i think.it was like watching club fight(fight club film running in the reverse)

Weirdest post i have ever read.

No offence dude.
I dont know what it is.what yöü have written what was oo your mind...

Anyway i didnt read it fully , i was about 2/ 3 and stopped. ..

Again no offence dude

have u read till the point where i say , i know noone will read till this because of 3 reasons? .

Then why post?? Not everyone here has the time to go through that kind of diatribe...

Is looking Handsome A MUST for todays World?

33% Looks, 33% Personality, 34% Brains.

Personality and Brains can compensate for looks (unless you are one-eyed and haf 10 stitches on your face, looking worser than a pirate!!!), but only looks will get you no-where. Looks may bring you short-term gains but personality and brainz will help you thruout your life!

Secondly, I don't understand why people go behind gals who "think" thru their eyes! No offence and this is my personal opinion, but those who only place looks as the top priority are usually the ones who look for one-night-stands. I'm not generalizing but saying that from my own exp.

And those who are shy. Come on give them some time. Unless you show them what you are... your personality, aptitude, ability to deal with extreme situations etc., they will not come forward. If you are recessed, so are they.

The world is not short of good-looking, intelligent, sensible gals. But yeah, one of them has been pocketed by me!

My experience: Relationships and strong friendships are not built overnight!

^ +1

infra_red_dude said:
Secondly, I don't understand why people go behind gals who "think" thru their eyes! No offence and this is my personal opinion, but those who only place looks as the top priority are usually the ones who look for one-night-stands. I'm not generalizing but saying that from my own exp.

U R right, but here is the thing. Boys today are more sex starved then 5 years ago. Just think of this anirudh, were u as sex starved in your graduation 1st year compared to a Kid today in his graduation first year? I guess not, because the time frame was different. We had control, today's youngster of 17 & 18 don't have such control on themselves (which results in sexual harrasment cases). Both gals & guys want to have sex ASAP & for that looks matter.

The world is not short of good-looking, intelligent, sensible gals. But yeah, one of them has been pocketed by me!

Congretulations Dude, it's hard to find love these days. My experience says it's better to leave that part to mom & dad , & just enjoy right now.

My experience: Relationships and strong friendships are not built overnight!

Bravo, but friendship is the first stage of any relationship.

gx_saurav said:
We had control, today's youngster of 17 & 18 don't have such control on themselves (which results in sexual harrasment cases). Both gals & guys want to have sex ASAP & for that looks matter.

I agree with this and I dunno whom to blame for this!

gx_saurav said:
Congretulations Dude, it's hard to find love these days. My experience says it's better to leave that part to mom & dad , & just enjoy right now.

Keep searching for true love and beauty and you'll surely find; flirt and you'll almost never find!

Rather I would say if you leave this task to mum and dad almost in every case they won't start searching for a gal for you unless you are fit for marriage (haf some money in your pocket and a decent job). That takes time; and then the time you take to know that someone special matters. So I'd say find your match, know her well and then proceed

gx_saurav said:
Bravo, but friendship is the first stage of any relationship.

True. But things are not so good here. Earlier (during the prev. generation) gals didn't talk much with guys coz they were shy and its was considered "bad" to be with guys.

Now the case is different. Gals (who are not $ex starved) don't mingle much with guys coz of fear. The society has witnessed extremities.

My opinion is, if the gal values an individual only on the basis of looks and/or money then kick her @$$ and say Astala vista, Baby!

infra_red_dude said:
I agree with this and I dunno whom to blame for this!

Too much tech progress

gx_saurav said:
Congretulations Dude, it's hard to find love these days. My experience says it's better to leave that part to mom & dad , & just enjoy right now.

Why bother finding someone ?
It just happens, don't go on searching for it, of course if flirt is the only motive then...

And u don't always get the one who luvs u truly cuz u never care for something taken for granted. :mrgreen:

infra_red_dude said:
I agree with this and I dunno whom to blame for this!

I blame restrictive parents & no sex education in schools today upto class 12.

Keep searching for true love and beauty and you'll surely find; flirt and you'll almost never find!

Nah dude, I had my share of emotional disaster. My best friend pulled me out of it, but alas...she fell for me to which I said no & we are separate now. I ain't gonna search, I prefer to only make friend gals & know them, understand them so that the day I m something good (financially good for marriage etc) I can select from one of them.

In short, I like to make gals run after me *gigasmilies.googlepages.com/9.gif

Rather I would say if you leave this task to mum and dad almost in every case they won't start searching for a gal for you unless you are fit for marriage (haf some money in your pocket and a decent job). That takes time; and then the time you take to know that someone special matters. So I'd say find your match, know her well and then proceed

Abe to who wants to marry before 30 yaar *gigasmilies.googlepages.com/10.gif, will see about it later

if the gal values an individual only on the basis of looks and/or money then kick her @$$ and say Astala vista, Baby!

That's exactly what my Ex-gf is doing with her current one, due to which I had to leave her...hey, I don't have faltu time & resources to waste on her, & give her expensive gifts or sing romantic songs for her...that won't get me a good job, & that's why I make friends....which is something i advice everyone to follow.

It just happens, don't go on searching for it, of course if flirt is the only motive then...

For me, flirting is the best stress buster, along with music & sometimes intimacy with gals.

@s18000rpm
ur r mech? i think

nd ur rite. Im CS.
They are eager nd we let then do talks coz we pity them...its so boring in their class. we admit

gx_saurav said:
For me, flirting is the best stress buster, along with music & sometimes intimacy with gals.

lol..u never know when flirting turns into emotional turmoil

Yeah music is a great stress buster.

the question was more like how to succeed in today's world, and by that I gathered professionally. The thread seems to be going somewhere else as always at thinkdigit forum.
As for girls, I get a headache trying to understand what they want. I had a good friend upto like last september or so. She was nice and I thought she was just my friend. One day she stopped talking and hasn't talked with me till now. I heard from her friend that she expected some romantic gift on the first anniversary of the day we first met and is angry that she didn't get any. I just let her go. I mean, we are just friends right...? Personality or brains for girls? Go figure.

ilugd said:
the question was more like how to succeed in today's world, and by that I gathered professionally. The thread seems to be going somewhere else as always at thinkdigit forum.

Sowiee......

As for girls, I get a headache trying to understand what they want. I had a good friend upto like last september or so. She was nice and I thought she was just my friend. One day she stopped talking and hasn't talked with me till now. I heard from her friend that she expected some romantic gift on the first anniversary of the day we first met and is angry that she didn't get any. I just let her go. I mean, we are just friends right...? Personality or brains for girls? Go figure.

Oh comon, never break a gals heart dude....just go talk to her, give her a heart shaped pillow or a taddy bear

^^ I think people might be doing research on you and you might be doing one of your own ;-)

.... Why do you always get excited in these kind of threads. :-D

Well... if you got brain you can earn dough and then you can get beauty... I mean, beautiful gals and for the desperate people, 'plastic surgery' is always there....

gx_saurav said:
Oh comon, never break a gals heart dude....just go talk to her, give her a heart shaped pillow or a taddy bear

Have got better things to do with my time and money. heart shaped pillow?? teddy bear?? I mean, where do we even get these things?

@ilugd
get them @ ebay..nd tell her that u searched whole day for these stuff[in front of PC nd looking ebay for getting the stuffs at lowest cost]. nd if ste still refuses, then tell her uve had chance to get better things to get from ebay :twisted:

ilugd said:
the question was more like how to succeed in today's world, and by that I gathered professionally. The thread seems to be going somewhere else as always at thinkdigit forum.

If you look at the chronology of events it bent from professional life to girls and everyone (including me and the thread starter) posted on the latter. So I guess this is what the thread intended to be.

ilugd, I'm with you. You did the right thing by letting her go! Come on.. an anniversary gifts??? A cup of coffee remembering past events is fine.. but a gift??!! How many gals are you gonna present "gifts" on your first anniversary of friendship??? Thats outrageously shameless to expect things like these in friendship! A friendship is built on trust not "anniversary gifts"!!!!

ilugd said:
Have got better things to do with my time and money. heart shaped pillow?? teddy bear?? I mean, where do we even get these things?

Archie's Gallery *gigasmilies.googlepages.com/10.gif

How many gals are you gonna present "gifts" on your first anniversary of friendship??? Thats outrageously shameless to expect things like these in friendship! A friendship is built on trust not "anniversary gifts"!!!!

Ok 1st, don't u give your GF anniversary gifts?

2nd, comon yaar....that gal had feelings for Jeba, is it tht hard to understand.

gx_saurav said:
Abe that's not me, that Prof. Utonium....this is me.

*img167.imageshack.us/img167/7954/monkqv5.jpg

Manoj Kumar?

^^^^ haha.... :))

gx_saurav said:
Ok 1st, don't u give your GF anniversary gifts?

My GF doesn't demand "gifts" on anniversary!!! Man... a gf is still ok.. since she's the one and only (i suppose!

) But what if a guy has 5 good friends who are girls... can he go and get "anniversary gifts" for all. Imho, its wrong to expect gifts from anyone... no matter whether they are your frenz or she is your GF. What matters is the time that you can give them.. the understanding...

Isn't expecting gifts on the same platform as the gals on the lookout only for handsome guys or those with money? I mean.. superficial things?? The thing that this thread is all about???

what happened to the topic - this has turned out to become love guru

Well in my view....

1st looks, to get any gal to look at you(average looks will also do if ur innocent looking),

2nd ur brain, to talk to any girl u need the brain, coz if u will make her comfertable or say things what she wants to hear, then only she will want to hang around with u and eventuly that time spend together will give u fruit

3rd steady mind, so now u r in a relationship...
now if u want to flirt then leave this part, but if u r serious then it a must to have a steady mind, coz most of the relationships break bcoz of argues,missunderstandings and useless fights, so if a boy wants to keep her gal with him, he better have a steady mind coz that can only save his relationship in the end...
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i always wanted a nice girl who will be my wife in future. i never wanted to make many gf but i always looked for a stable relationship....
but these girls....
they will just turn u around man.
now i really coz of my past relationship i get really afraid being serious,
now just make frnds or have a timepass with veryless or no emotions involved and keep searching for that special person or leve it 2 mom and dad.

so guys, my advise to u..
make frnds but dont get serious with some1 until u r satisfied that she is worth it.
Spend ur time and money on ur family rather then on girls who dont even value you....

i cant say every 1 will be satisfied with my view but its my expereance...

What is this "study mind"????

Steady mind perhaps?

Regards,
ray

steady mind means that u dont loose ur temper or get irretated very quickly, coz girls tend to talk in a way that u might get irretated of frustated easyly...

ps. yeah thats steady not study, sorry for that, just woke up 10min ago

infra_red_dude said:
My GF doesn't demand "gifts" on anniversary!!! Man... a gf is still ok.. since she's the one and only (i suppose! ) But what if a guy has 5 good friends who are girls... can he go and get "anniversary gifts" for all. Imho, its wrong to expect gifts from anyone... no matter whether they are your frenz or she is your GF. What matters is the time that you can give them.. the understanding...

Umm...it goes like this. Gifts are Microsoft way & Understanding & Time to her is Linux way *gigasmilies.googlepages.com/10.gif

Your point is quite good, guy will go bankrupt then...lolz

so guys, my advise to u..
make frnds but dont get serious with some1 until u r satisfied that she is worth it.
Spend ur time and money on ur family rather then on girls who dont even value you....

i cant say every 1 will be satisfied with my view but its my expereance...

I agree, that's my experience too.

hmmm... I just don't think she is worth the trouble. Not that she is not good or so, but if she is so touchy when i forget a simple anniversary, I am gonna have a lot more trouble in the future if I get things back to normal between us. And yes, this is turning out to be a love guru thread.

^Lolz,Guess its time to move it out of FightClub?

Regards,
ray

She never wud have thought that hoping for a gift will couse such havok in digit forum

Whether looking handsome is a MUST or not is a personal issue. You simply can't make people change their opinion overnight, especially when you aren't looking handsome.

(don't know if that is the correct smiley for the occasion

)

J

In life everything is a time dependant factor so u need to have the right qualities at the right age/time to be successful. Change is the only thing thats constant and consistent in life......as long as we either compensate/accept the change .....success will be easy to achieve.

aravind_n20 said:
She never wud have thought that hoping for a gift will couse such havok in digit forum

yeah, well...

R

x3060 said:
looks , only up to a certain age , thats all . brain -until you get a job . personality -all through your life . seriously , looks dont matter much ,brain does , it only comes in marriage , but that too , not much , you just need avg looks , thats all ,cause marrying a beautiful lady is not important , but marrying a good girl is .

ultimately , love wins over look , brain wins over instincts (at times )and personality gives you good life . which is greater than all of the above

well said

@ilugd
just tell her [or email her], to logon to digit forum, nd this thread nd go through the posts. Then she ll never ever dare to irritate u

she will kill me. :-D

And enjoy doing it.

lol

T

Looking handsome is not must but looking [Preferrably being

] rich is must

^^i agree with Tech Wiz

(i have also written in my earlier post but i think noone read that)

hey c'mon...gifting teddy bears stuffed hearts is all too dated i think.

Tech_Wiz said:
Looking handsome is not must but looking [Preferrably being ] rich is must

along with that most of the good looking girls possess a polyamorous and dominating nature and they seem to enjoy it pretty well, just sick

E

Basically if u have the bucks, most of the b***h type girls will fall for u ,even if u look like a pig and have an IQ of a chimp.
Yes, but if you want to impress the non-b***h types then having a good personality (need not be good looks), good sense of humor and considerate nature will get you the girls.
--eminemence.

T

Ladkiyan itni bakbak karti hai ki, I just cant stand it. So I say "Bas kar kitna bor karegi". The main reason why I got zero girls as close friends.

@Tech Wiz: I got the opposite problem with my girlfriend...she doesn't talk at all...

faraaz said:
@Tech Wiz: I got the opposite problem with my girlfriend...she doesn't talk at all...

she is an INTP kinda personality.

@faraaz
is she an Indian?

Is looking Handsome A MUST for todays World?

OFCOURSE!!!

Not only that a boy must also be rich... heck....

Isn't being a top of the field enough..? nooo...
They just don't care how are you from inside... (Maybe thats why most girls dont like coconuts...).

Money looks..Thats all matters to them...
And even if it seems they care for you.. There is some SH!TTY Meaning behind it. A girl might not be perfect in doing most of the things but she is perfect in making people do those things for them.

As someone genius said : "A girl's biggest asset is her Lie-Ability."

Quiz_Master said:
As someone genius said : "A girl's biggest asset is her Lie-Ability."

lol...

99% true

Looking good is not a MUST, however it does help, especially in India where every field of speciality is overcrowded. Good looks count for about the first minute or so, whether it can carry on or fails later, depends on the person. Looks are a part of a person, not the whole being and need to be treated as such. Unless of course, if one is in a profession that emphasises on looks.

gx_saurav said:
No, wrong. Love is an illusion between those with a GF & those without one. Someone who has 10 GFs will never believe in love till his marriage, while those without a GF or not confident enough with gals will say "I m looking for my real love so i m not making GFs"

I have to disagree here. Love is an illusion to a person who can't understand what love is - the emotional connection between two people in love. It has nothing to do with whether a person has no girlfriend or has dozens of girls, although it is often used as an excuse by the former. Marriage isn't necessarily an indicator of love, a couple could be married for 30 years and yet treat it like a business agreement for procreation and life process. In India, its more often the norm than exception.

I have a girlfriend that I live with and I believe in love, but I don't believe in marriage. Where would I fit in, if there were only two classification systems?

gx_saurav said:
I blame restrictive parents & no sex education in schools today upto class 12.

Agreed. The only sex education people in India get are from dubious sources like peers, porn or scientific "Life Process" chapters in Biology books. These aren't really helpful in teaching people about sex, they just explain copulation from a biological instinct point of view.

faraaz said:
@Tech Wiz: I got the opposite problem with my girlfriend...she doesn't talk at all...

She could be an introvert or maybe she doesn't have a lot of things to talk with you.

in general, one thing i have learnt is, its very very hard to guess at what girls think..... u just can't assume that if you act like this, she will react in a way which u had anticipated... and most times, your guess would be wrong...

@Aberforth, Dominator, T159: Hmm lets see...

She's not INTP...more of ENFP ... I'm an INTP actually...just had my MBTI last week!

She's Indian...

We've been dating for close to 5 years now...of which 4 have been long distance relationship (I was in Australia for 3.5 years and now already half a year in Switzerland) ... so that could be one reason we don't have as much small talk as any regular couple...plus we've been together for REALLY long so we don't need to talk that much! ;-)

Of course, I'm talking about conversation which doesnt deal with every day life and current events and the obligatory bf/gf stuff...hmm...we just spend what little time we get together doing more important stuff... ;-)

^ that sounds like the key to having a strong relationship, the usual bf/gf stuff for hours on phone and face to face just turns out bad in the end i guess.

Aberforth said:
I have to disagree here. Love is an illusion to a person who can't understand what love is - the emotional connection between two people in love. It has nothing to do with whether a person has no girlfriend or has dozens of girls, although it is often used as an excuse by the former.

What can I say, faced my experience so I m advicing the kids & boys to pay attention to career first....then love later./

in general, one thing i have learnt is, its very very hard to guess at what girls think..... u just can't assume that if you act like this, she will react in a way which u had anticipated... and most times, your guess would be wrong...

This is a gift to some people *gigasmilies.googlepages.com/65.gif

gx_saurav said:
What can I say, faced my experience so I m advicing the kids & boys to pay attention to career first....then love later./

Hmm...consider this...since 2003 I've done my B Sc with a Biotech & Microbiology major in Australia, worked for 8 months in my family business and immediately left for Switzerland where I am doing my MBA in Finance and at the same time rapidly becoming fluent in German. At the same time, since I passed out from year 12, I've been with my current girlfriend whom I must say I am very much in love with and plan to marry as soon as I return to India after working abroad for a couple of years...

Of course, that's if we manage to get around the whole Hindu (she) - Muslim (me) problem our families are going to have...but that's not the issue here. The point I am trying to make is that its not easy to do both at the same time but it is definitely possible to pursue both career and love simultaneously.

gx_saurav said:
I blame restrictive parents & no sex education in schools today upto class 12.

Agree. it is only human to explore the unknown!

Aberforth said:
Agreed. The only sex education people in India get are from dubious sources like peers, porn or scientific "Life Process" chapters in Biology books. These aren't really helpful in teaching people about sex, they just explain copulation from a biological instinct point of view.

+Wikipedia

i have read many articles from wikipedia and spread them to my peers

A man is measured by the way that he thinks not clothing lines ice links leather & minks

by John Cena

Practice makes a man perfect, same applies for gamerz
but who the he** am I to say that ?
-
dOm1naTOr

abhi_10_20 said:
in general, one thing i have learnt is, its very very hard to guess at what girls think..... u just can't assume that if you act like this, she will react in a way which u had anticipated... and most times, your guess would be wrong...

Every single girl is unique as is any human in the world. My present girl for example, a French white is obsessed with a 'tanned' complexion and thinks my wheatish skin and Goan Mestico looks is 'hot'. Not something you'd expect from the overhyped 'white pride' among Europeans or obsession with fair skin among Indians.

Ultimately the best master to understanding girls is personal experience with girls along with an open mind, you can't expect any kind of popular opinion, 'wisdom' or tips to help you. Unless you are ready to mingle with girls of all types, you are not going to find that perfect girl that you'd want.

gx_saurav said:
What can I say, faced my experience so I m advicing the kids & boys to pay attention to career first....then love later./

The concept that career gets sacrificed by love is as outdated as the idea that sex education encourages teens to have more sex. Love and career are different facets of our life, why do we have to neglect one for the other? The French are among the most romatically and sexually active people in the world; yet it didn't stop them having one of the strongest economy and best human resource pool on earth.

Far more than the "perfectly matched arranged marriage" and "career first" Indians can ever boast of. Or for that matter, even the NRIs working as mental labourers in US and other first world countries. A better career doesn't make for a better person, it is a better all round development of a person which makes a person. Unless Indians get more in touch with their human side, we will always be a third world country where the best minds look for greener pastures outside India.

And faraaz, I agree with you and wish you all the best. By the way I have spent the last year in Suisse and France too. 2 months in Samedan, about a month in Sion and 8 months in Lyon, France.

max_demon said:
+Wikipedia

i have read many articles from wikipedia and spread them to my peers

Just wait till our government or the moral police gets a whiff of this. They'll likely ban the Wikipedia for 'corrupting our studious youths". Sexuality and the other soft sides human nature is a crime in India while molesting, rapes, domestic and paedophile marraiges are completely acceptable unless the victim is a foreigner.

I'm really glad that this topic didn't topic veer away(much) from focus. @Faraaz-Really good to hear about the way your love and professional life is going. All the very best *gigasmilies.googlepages.com/113.gif I usually move away from long posts, but the posts made by you guys are really interesting and I'm pleased to find that we are all able to handle life so much maturely than what girls think. Well, I got to know a thing or two from the experts *gigasmilies.googlepages.com/10.gif

@Aberforth, phreak0ut: Thanks...

@Aberforth specifically: Parlez vous francais? Vous avez en Suisse MAIS Ich bin in der Schweiz!! Verstanden??

<joke>Viva le *babel.altavista.com

Poteau en Anglais svp

Its cheap to use translators...here I am struggling with what broken French and German I know and you fellows are cheating with this stuff.

Faraaz, get an iPhone

, then u can use the WiFi there to open Google translation & translate...howzzat...

Unnecessary if you know a bit of the language already...and besides, my N80 has WiFi already...

faraaz said:
Unnecessary if you know a bit of the language already...and besides, my N80 has WiFi already...

Conclusion, N80 pwns iPhone

Aucun iphone contre d'autres discussions de téléphones ici ne satisfont

Désolé pour détourner le sujet de l'iPhone

COMEON!STOP THIS CRAP!

^^get google translator prakash.

now translate this:
enthu kopa ivide nadakunne?
ellam thallu vangichitte poku

This ain't fair !!

[satire]@aravind:ii ma**iranmare francilekku naadu kadathanam :evil:

ii mandanmaru tala pokanju chindichotte entha ezhuthiekanathenn!

[/satire]

translate this:
7ade5c2df46af88844cb1a0d1ceebb5f

(please stop this else my darker side will pawn u all) ]=D

Fair enough..we don't want the mods locking the thread and god knows I've had enough trouble with the mods as it is...

[joke]

SO..umm...guys, you think looking handsome is a must for today's world?? Since I'm built like a supermodel, I wouldn't know otherwise!

[/joke]

^^ Vo sab to thik hai but where is the starting tag for your joke?
We want to know where it starts.

^^ hmm. well, i edited my previous post and added the joke tag. Hope that explains things to the mods. :-D

@Pathik: Ab kush?? [joke] tag bhi add kar diya...

faraaz said:
@Pathik: Ab kush?? [joke] tag bhi add kar diya...

[/joke]

end tag

""Is looking Handsome A MUST for todays World?""

Previosly I said "Yes It is a Must..."

I want to change it.. (Had few experiences in past 3 days.)
Now My answer is "It is the only way you can have a *HOT* (Not decent and stable) girl-friend."

offtopic:
well this forum needs to write joke tag to let others know that their posts are joke

Quiz_Master said:
""Is looking Handsome A MUST for todays World?""

Previosly I said "Yes It is a Must..."

I want to change it.. (Had few experiences in past 3 days.)
Now My answer is "It is the only way you can have a *HOT* (Not decent and stable) girl-friend."

Right said.,,,

i think m smart....although m d only 1 who thinks so....so i guess u need 2 add personality n character 2 it...isnt it?

Enjoy~!

M

enticer86 said:
Brain, what guys want

Luks, what gals want

but not all...

m.renuka said:
but not all...

You bumped such an old thread dear.
Btw, if you do NOT subscribe to my views, I wish every girl would think like you

m.renuka said:
but not all...

[joke]Real girls, we mean

[/joke]

^^bad,bad joke!

Pathik said:
[joke]Real girls, we mean [/joke]

Gud one