mami ke bhai ki beti..

Is it ok to 'patao' my mami's brother's daughter?
I have checked, we are not related by blood in anyway.

Its legal ofcourse, but I want to know how will it be looked upon by our families if our families found out about our 'chackar' or my feelings towards her. I know for certain in some families this wld be frownede upon. Ours a is normal middle-class hindu family(love marriages are ok)

I mean we meet at my mami's home, gossip and chat real casually. so I am wondering if our parents look upon us as brother and sister :yikes:!!

To be sure - my pyari is meri mom's brother's wife's brother's daughter.

btw me is totally krazy about her

A

Go ahead
dere is nothing to worry
ur relation is not so close....

go for it no WORRIES
lol i cant stop laughing
sorry

whats your age? If you really want to marry her then walk up to your parents and tell how you feel. There is no point in waiting in these matters.

A

exactly
tell ur parents it gonna arrange marriage
u need not to worry

haan re ... pyaar andha hotta hai :lol:

pyaar har rishtey k upar hotta hai :lol:

OMG thinkloveguru.com/forums :lol:

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^^^
hey isme rishta kaha se aa gaya

mami ke bhai ki beti
baaaaaaaaaaaba re
bahut dur hai bhai

he he we solve any damn problem

people all around me seem to be thinking of marriage. I am sick of it.

This is gonna be a very long thread...

bas sirf itna dekhna mama aur mami ke bichmein lafda na hojaye :lol:

A

Good prediction charan

Hope something like Srija-Chiranjeevi issue doesn't happen (IMO: love marriages are ok, eloping not so ok, marrying at young age is strict no no; wtf the guy is younger than me, dunno what he does). Got what I meant?

Otherwise your situation seems ok. Go ahead if you're not young.

wats ur age buddy chess ????????

arre u guys are so fast!! and bored

Thanks a lot!!

whats your age? If you really want to marry her then walk up to your parents and tell how you feel. There is no point in waiting in these matters.

I am over twenty.. though marriage ke liye main bacha hoon.

^^ arre tension kyon leta hai .... salim aur anarkali ne socha tha kya yeh sab ....

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yup u r too small kid
but u can continue this relation
and marriage that gal after some yrs
if u like to marriage then otherwise plz dont go ahead
it ll mess ur relation with ur mama's family
so be carefull

almighty said:
Go ahead
dere is nothing to worry
ur relation is not so close....

she is my bhai ki behen.. some will say bhai ki behana bhi toh behan hui...

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bhai ki bahan

how cum
she is ur mami's bhai beti

iske mama aur mami ka bhi kuch lafda lag raha mereko

iMav said:
^^ arre tension kyon leta hai .... salim aur anarkali ne socha tha kya yeh sab ....

u r right. tension nahi leni chahiye..

I might add, I haven't even talked to her yet. (try kiya tha par..) But she knows,. Don't want her to get into a mess.

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mama or mami ke beech to lafra hota hi hai

wo sab jante hai

almighty said:
bhai ki bahan
how cum
she is ur mami's bhai beti

mami ka beta mera bhai, aur woh uski behan.

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arrey ye to mamla ek tarfa hai or bahardur av itna pareshan hai
beta tujhe ishq ho gaya
go ahead tera kuch nahi ho sakta
wo kahwat hai na
jab dil lagi ..... wali

abbey mami ka bhai teta mama
or wo hua tera mama sasur

abbey tu jaker mom se clear kar
sab hota hai yaar

chesss,

IMO guys should not marry b4 26 (ideally 27-28 ). Enjoy life yaar, after marriage too much tension and responsibilities.

If not her, there'll be other chicks (hehe) waiting for you.

mami mani bahi beti mami ha chachi , bahu ki beti

could you guys pls use some english so that other humanbeings will also understand and may help in this noble cause

abey kya family family khel rahe ho yaar tum log :lol:

IMO guys should not marry b4 26 (ideally 27-28 ). Enjoy life yaar, after marriage too much tension and responsibilities.

Wise worrds..
before her I had decided never to marry. Ekdum confirmed tha. Ab I am confused,
I have kind of decided that I am too young to be even thinking abt marriage an all, just forget about it toally before I grow (up)

Another thing ,when I talk to her, will she be thinking 'marriage'

I think this relationship is ok. She is not related to you in any direct way..
This may be the actual family tree between you and her.
*img205.imageshack.us/img205/6255/relzi1.gif
Had done like this in my aptitude exams

^^ OMFG lucky star tu family planning karta hai kya :lol:

fmaily tree hi bana diya :lol:

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LOL
Good example

@iMav, Family planning?? Only if I had one :sad:

Mama = Mom's Brother
Mami = Mama's wife

A

^^^are u asking or telling us

^telling

Offtopic:

Almighty, How did you do this in your siggy??

¡uʍop ǝpısdn ɹoʇıuoɯ ʎɯ pǝuɹnʇ oɥʍ ¡ʎǝɥ

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ʇxǝʇ buıdı1ɟ ɹoɟ

xuɐɥʇ

you read the code? check out the page source here. *content3.i-am-bored.com/games/textflip.html
a bit crazy

Abey uski shaadi ka card bhi ulte text mein chapna hai kya, pehle uski problem to solve karo, fir dekhenge, ki text ulta hai ya seedha.

My suggestion :

The relation does not seems to be a problem. But I am not sure as it all varies. I guess you are below 23 and I am sure you won't agree

but your age may not be the right age to make big decisions like marry or not to marry, whom to marry etc.

First - Know whether she loves / likes the same way you love / like her. It will all change if she like you very much but do not want to marry. She may tie a rakhi and will smile

Jokes apart, if you really love her and if you feel the urge (like some have installing Vista at 2.00 am, some make logic chart based on love etc etc) go ahead and ask the girl first. Yes, it may not be easy, in that case know from her close friends or know it some way. Now if you get green signal, change the gear and speed up. Talk to your parents about it, in a calm and explanatory manner. Never tell if its your exam season or if your parents are already in tension. Select a suitable time for that. Also, if you have an elder sis or bro or any elder person (may be cousin ?) that wil lbe a great help. As you know VMWare make it work with even Windows and Linux

If your parents also shows green signal, change gear back to slow

There is enough time and yes, 27 is pretty good age to tie teh knot. Wait patiently till that. Use mobile phone, email, messenger. Ever heard of love letters ? No need of that anyway. That was a thing in our age (10 yr back lol) - stone age for you !

Whatever the girl or your parents or her parents decide, do not put too much pressure on them. Try to convince your love, but do not quarrel on that. Whatever be the decision, study well, get a nice job and then you will be in a position to take a good deicision of your own. May be you can come like Amitabh and can ask - Ab Mere pas Gaadi hai, Banglow hai, Mein Software Engineer hoom, America Jaaonga, kya thum mujhe se shaadi karoongi (yaar I forgot all Hindi I learnt in class 9th

, so forgive me)

And finally do not forget to invite all of the Digit guys (we will be all uncles n auntys by then

) to attend your marriage.

Good luck. God bless you my friend.

wooooooooh .... wel said ...........its the best solution which can be derrived using the surrent variables and assumptions ........ Hope no catalyst ( or Villien, hindi film iisshtyle ) comes in between ..........

Dnt forget to invite haan ................................

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dude...there is no problem if you feel that u love your "cousin"....but i feel you should first talk to her before you jump into the fire and tell your parents abt it...only if she reciprocates ur feelings should u go on wid it.....trsut me u cud land into trouble if she says no while u tell ur parents before hand

exactly ...................

Chess
The relation will be valid and your mami will like it and even she will help you out.

" What you say, think it twice and say me in two weeks" - from film Departed

Take your time before reaching to any decision. The time depends upon maturity of subject(you), it can be as less as one week and even can go upto two years.
So take you time, this was a candid effort from my side.

its okay to marry her i dont think there is any problem because once my parents were asking me to marry mami ke bhai ki daughter but i denied it cauz i like other girl and u know i am still 22

i don't find any thing wrong in this go ahead dude....

just get it approved by ur parents...else expect the unexpected

So its OK! cool thanks.

The relation will be valid and your mami will like it and even she will help you out.

interesting.. I am having the same feeling that my mami does want us to meet.

She may tie a rakhi and will smile

She smiles allright, but there is nothing sisterly abt it

. murderous smiles they are, kutch kaam nahi hota, itni pyaari hai voh..

Marriage an all are far away. Like everybody i have my own set of problems, that I won't bore you with.
As far as telling my parents, I am not telling anybody anything that she isn't ok with. Currently all I am interested in not upsetting her in any way.

Q) Is it ok to just tell I am krazy abt her, but not get into a serious 'relationship'? Not that I don't want to ,but there are problems..
I ofcourse have Nil experience in these matters..

well well well looks like all digitians approved this relationship.But guys think this way:Mama's children are his bros\sis and and they are also bros\sis of the girl in question......DOesn't it mean they are actually remotely related brothers and sisters?

And I think he perfectly defined infactuation in his discription.

He will stop thinking about her as soon as he sees some other hot chick in neighbourhood\college\(not again).Testosterone is such a wonderful hormone.

So finally wats the status of ur relationship chesss??

^I don't get to meet her everyday, hopefully will meet her this week..

And I think he perfectly defined infactuation in his discription.

arre aur confuse mat karo.. pehle hi bahut confusion hai..

arre dude zyada kuch hua toh chiranjivee ki beti ki tarah kar lena ya toh fir woh new maruti zen ad dekhi hai na

^^Yup
Buy a maruti estilo and elope with her.

Or play poker with Pamela anderson.lolzzzzzzz.

is saari kahani mein poker or pamela kahan se aa gayi..

Chess tu jyada confuse mat ho..
Just meeting her and try to guage her feelings... and most important .. give it TIME!!!

chesss said:
arre aur confuse mat karo.. pehle hi bahut confusion hai..

dude, first get yourself out of this CONFUUUUUUSION !!!

sit, relax & THINK about it. dont jump into it.

coz this mamla can become big sh1t, if your desire for her dies.

^^Pamela and poker: A very interesting story.In short what happened is that Pamela was playing poker with one of her male friends of many years.....she had some important work to do so she left her chauffeur(Hope the spelling is right) to play with him.......when she came back after 10-15mins she was around 200-250 thousand dollars in loss.......the friend said he could forget about it if she kiss(read sleep....press mein kiss bolna padta hai) him once........and they have been girlfriend-boyfriend since then.Talk about height of sl*tyness

Interesting story indeed.

he he... yeah, this is true, it was in the newspapers a bout 1-2 weeks back...and most of the papers unashamedly used the word 'sleep' instead of 'kiss'

dude u guys might kill me but none the less chess dont think so much just do what infra's sig says

(hope he hasnt changed it)

^^then why take so much risk?why not get some hooker?

arey ye kya family drama laga rakha hai ???

Arre chess, look man, you're 20-something, right? Remember how it was when we were in high school/college? You liked a girl, she liked you, and you ran around the whole day wondering when you'd get to see her again, etc etc. And then those pre-planned meetings in quiet places, just the two of you walking around aimlessly, and tension so thick you could cut it with a lightsabre and watch it glue back like Fevi? DID YOU EVER TELL YOUR PARENTS THEN??? Nien, I'm guessing, so why do you have to tell 'em now? Just talk with the chick, gauge whether she fancies you, and then spend time together as often as you can. If you're planning on trying to hold on to her for the next five years and then get engaged, dude, I'm afraid you're gonna be closing your mind. Who knows, in the next five years, you'll find someone else you'll fall for so hard we'll have to dig you out of the mantle. And what if she finds someone else? What if you realise sis 'n you aren't compatible? What if I pass in fluid mechanics? If you tell your rents now, either they'll flip (hopefully not, but i had to put it in there), or they'll think about it and say, "Yeah, okay", and keep a close -correction, very close- eye on you for the rest of your days. And if in FIVE YEARS (say that again, loudly), another chick comes along? Your whole family'll think you dumped second-cuz for that one, and you'll have a rep - albeit a bad one. Like one of those criminal records. Great, now I've lost my thread. Okay, all i'm saying is that, take it easy, do not, I repeat, DO NOT tell mum 'n dad right now, and see how things go. Keep us updated ;-)

Just my two cents worth...

lolz..... hm.. ek kaam kar.. pehle to use bata ye situation... juz tell her tat ke tu usse kitna pyaar karta hai ...

.. nd den let her decide bout diz.. i guezz wo bhi haa hi bole gi ..

..!! ..