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'Of course I love you darling... Now just let me finish this game.'

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vamsi_krishna
vamsi_krishna Original post #1
Nov 17, 2010 at 1:24 PM
A growing male obsession with computer games is taking a heavy toll on romance.

More than 5 per cent of enthusiasts admit the hobby has cost them their relationship.

And half of women whose partners own consoles said they were ‘jealous’ of the amount of time dedicated to the habit.

Perhaps that’s not surprising, as one in ten men confessed to having rejected a night of passion in favour of more time at the screen.

The survey of 1,500 gamers and their partners was undertaken by One-Poll.com. A spokesman said: ‘It seems like a games console often means there are three people in a relationship.

‘It’s a bit sad if the virtual world is taking precedence over the real world.’

The study found the Call of Duty series were the games most likely to cause problems in a relationship, along with Football Manager, Grand Theft Auto, Fifa and Medal of Honor.

And it also emerged four out of ten gamers play computer games every night of the week.
COD: Black Ops

Addictive: A screen shot of COD: Black Ops, which has been heralded as a beautifully orchestrated game and the pinnacle of the military shooter genre

When the eagerly anticipated Call of Duty: Black Ops was launched last week in a blaze of publicity, men all over the country were rubbing their hands in glee.

THE TOP 20 RELATIONSHIP WRECKING GAMES

1. Call of Duty
2. Football Manager
3. Grand Theft Auto
4. FIFA
5. Medal of Honour
6. Halo
7. Super Mario Brothers
8. Gran Turismo
9. Mario Kart
10. Guitar Hero
11. Assassins Creed
12. Pro Evo Soccer
13. Resident Evil
14. World of Warcraft
15. F1
16. Red Dead Redemption
17. Need for Speed
18. Fallout
19. Gears of War
20. Angry Birds

But many women will not have been so enthusiastic about the new game, which sold two million during its first five days on sale - making it the biggest launch of any game in the UK.

Seven out of ten blokes admitted their partner regularly became annoyed about the amount of time they spent playing games.

This time can be very lengthy indeed, with one fifth of men spending ten or more hours a week playing games.

One in ten men admitted they had ditched a date to keep on playing a game with two in ten under 25s saying they have done this.

Message boards are full of women posting messages about boyfriends 'addicted' to playing computer games. A typical sentiment is summed up by one lady who wrote:

'My boyfriend is addicted to Call of Duty: Black Ops. I'd love it if he would spend all that time talking to me. Even though I see him every day I think the game is more important than me...'

A (male) poster advised her: 'If you want some attention, date a guy who doesn't play computer games.'

Souce

That is a survey, reported in UK news daily, DAILY MAIL.

Lets see how many of you folks agree with it's contents.
Zangetsu
Nov 17, 2010 at 2:28 PM
gr8 news for all gamers.....
a guy has two girlfriends now....1 real & 1 virtual....
vamsi_krishna
Nov 17, 2010 at 2:32 PM
I realize now, this is why i hear some forum members expressing that they will leave gaming after their marriage.
gagan007
Nov 17, 2010 at 3:37 PM
I had to leave playing RON with my friend after he got married. His wife strictly forbids it :(
JojoTheDragon
Nov 17, 2010 at 4:26 PM
chicks become jealous of the virtual beauties, no wonder they are pissed :D
skeletor
Nov 17, 2010 at 4:38 PM
Football Manager has no chicks. But it is really addictive and has psychotic effects on you. I played FM 2010 for like 18 hours a day when I used to.



A
Nov 17, 2010 at 5:57 PM
^ those videos were of real hell of games....................
I dont care, am waiting for black ops pc version, to get hands on.
vamsi_krishna
Nov 17, 2010 at 6:09 PM
^ No one will what we are playing and the time we are playing until we get married. After that, things get a bit tricky :p
Faun
Faun #11
Nov 17, 2010 at 9:48 PM
Lol it's dailmail, shouldn't take it too seriously *www.unp.im/images/smilies/sehaj.gif
skeletor
skeletor #12
Nov 17, 2010 at 10:15 PM
Lol it's dailmail, shouldn't take it too seriously *www.unp.im/images/smilies/sehaj.gif
haha, now coming from a non-football-following background how do you know that Dailymail isn't to be taken seriously??? :p I'm impressed.

But Football Manager has been the cause of a lot of divorces and break-ups in UK.
topgear
topgear #14
Nov 18, 2010 at 4:04 AM
good to see Fallout on the list but I'm not surprised at all - it has the most addictive gameplay - I use say to myself before playing this that I will play it more 2 hours but always ended up playing it more that 2 hours for it's addictiveness.

And 1 m0re thing is I like FPS/CRPG ( and sometime TPS with good story and gameplay as well )games too much - the gameplay, dialouges etc. just makes me stick with the game as long as I can.
Faun
Faun #15
Nov 18, 2010 at 7:13 AM
haha, now coming from a non-football-following background how do you know that Dailymail isn't to be taken seriously??? :p I'm impressed.

But Football Manager has been the cause of a lot of divorces and break-ups in UK.
Possibly one of the factor but there could be many considering divorce is not a big deal there.

Dailymail is like Punjab Kesri :p

maybe India is next :-|
Not any sooner.
Piyush
Piyush #16
Nov 18, 2010 at 11:01 AM
Possibly one of the factor but there could be many considering divorce is not a big deal there.

Dailymail is like Punjab Kesri :p
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:rofl:

anyways....one real incident....here it goes....

GTA san andreas was a major hit ...we all know that.....esp in Caribbean countries
one gamer/lover of this game was so much influenced by this game that he LITERALLY went out of his house with a knife in his hands and stabbed a poor old lady to death ....looted her money and went home SATISFIED

he said in his apology to community stating that he was relieved after murdering the lady

tchch.....:|
Zangetsu
Zangetsu #17
Nov 18, 2010 at 11:19 AM
@piyush120290: if there is case of Knife...so there is case of GUN also.....
games influencing people is generally banned in some countries......
gagan007
gagan007 #18
Nov 18, 2010 at 11:24 AM
we have seen a lot of murders/suicides/gun-shootings in USA and Japan mostly under influence of games...if someone plays video games 8-10 hours straight, this is sure gonna happen!
Piyush
Piyush #19
Nov 18, 2010 at 11:25 AM
@karan
may be
i came across only "knifing" news
abhidev
abhidev #20
Nov 18, 2010 at 2:12 PM
I also read abt a news saying a woman playing Farmville on facebook actually killed her 7 month old son coz he was bothering and irritating her as he was crying. sad :cry:
how can such a lame game create so much of madness...:-?
damngoodman999
Nov 18, 2010 at 2:21 PM
we have seen a lot of murders/suicides/gun-shootings in USA and Japan mostly under influence of games...if someone plays video games 8-10 hours straight, this is sure gonna happen!

Man i just play continuously for 2 days , just yesterday finished darksiders 1 & 1/2 days but got darkcircles under my eyes !

:razz: but i never gone Rough :razz:
vamsi_krishna
Nov 18, 2010 at 2:53 PM
Not to mention.. an edit carries knife everytime he jogs. Because he can run fast with knife in CounterStrike.
gagan007
gagan007 #23
Nov 18, 2010 at 3:11 PM
@damngoodman999: not all people are psychic my friend. it needs a lot of perseverance. :)
vamsi_krishna
Nov 18, 2010 at 3:21 PM
^ errr..what were you trying to imply!?(LOL) I was just telling something, I know very well not to generalize things, particularly when it comes to a concept like this.
damngoodman999
Nov 18, 2010 at 7:47 PM
^ errr..what were you trying to imply!?(LOL) I was just telling something, I know very well not to generalize things, particularly when it comes to a concept like this.

Seriously i dont understand anything VAMSI ! :sad:
vamsi_krishna
Nov 18, 2010 at 8:23 PM
No.. what gagan did there is.. He never quoted you in his post. As I'm the one who posted before him.. i thought he is talking to me. And i thought.. "not all people are psychic my friend. it needs a lot of perseverance." was his response to my post. So, i replied "I'm not generalizing things and only talking about specific people"

But it seems that he quoted you now.
DigitalDude
Nov 18, 2010 at 9:05 PM
I totally disagree with gagan :p

millions of people play games at a long stretch.. even become addicts. but they all don't go around and kill people.

IMO People kill people not because of games. they are already morons/psychos to begin with.



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Piyush
Piyush #29
Nov 18, 2010 at 9:14 PM
^^agreed
those are unique pieces
Faun
Faun #30
Nov 18, 2010 at 9:27 PM
IMO People kill people not because of games. they are already morons/psychos to begin with.

True. Even I have played much more violent games at a stretch of more than 12 hours but never had a thought of rampaging the city causing mayhem.

Btw, to be honest, Silent Hill 2 made me a better person - morally :dog:
toad_frog09
Nov 18, 2010 at 10:55 PM
Red Dead taught me to hate women actually...
And I obey video games more than my mom.
vamsi_krishna
Nov 19, 2010 at 1:37 AM
Me too! God of war 2 convinced me not to believe in gods. And, Gran Turismo 4 taught me not to give up anything because of a failure.. All it takes is another try.
topgear
topgear #33
Nov 19, 2010 at 3:02 AM
I also think games can be used to improve morality and personality and can change a person's passion and attitude and sometime mentality too.
gagan007
gagan007 #34
Nov 19, 2010 at 10:39 AM
Well I am surprised at all the above comments.
While playing Carmageddon and NFSes I used to have this urge to drive car hysterically, but got it under control as I understand my social duties and obligations.

After playing games like Quake, Half-Life, CS and Far Cry...I was beginning to feel the urge to pick up a gun and shoot all the bad guys I see on the road. Call me psycho but this is the fact and I am being very upfront about it with you guys.
abhidev
abhidev #35
Nov 19, 2010 at 11:27 AM
I would like to thank all the game developers for developing such awesome games..as they gv us an opportunity to be one what we can't in real life...i mean to be a bad-a*** co-op action hero or for that matter god of war....nice!!!!:mrgreen:
Faun
Faun #36
Nov 19, 2010 at 1:04 PM
Well I am surprised at all the above comments.
While playing Carmageddon and NFSes I used to have this urge to drive car hysterically, but got it under control as I understand my social duties and obligations.

After playing games like Quake, Half-Life, CS and Far Cry...I was beginning to feel the urge to pick up a gun and shoot all the bad guys I see on the road.
I do have the urge to drive fast but within limits. Real life equation applied :mrgreen:

Finding bad guys is not an easy process. But games like Prey (where you save the earth but initially started as a reluctant hero), The Suffering (where you have the choice to be evil, good or neutral, I chose the good and neutral ). Silent Hill (It's a big moral lesson, I shouldn't dispel the veneer), Tomb Raider (appreciating nature and wildlife, of course admiring Lara too), STALKER (helping fellows with medkits and sometime fleeced by the opportunists) etc indeed served their purpose for good.


I would like to thank all the game developers for developing such awesome games..as they gv us an opportunity to be one what we can't in real life...i mean to be a bad-a*** co-op action hero or for that matter god of war....nice!!!!:mrgreen:
True true. How could I have been on USG Ishimura, a planet extractor and how could I have sealed the Hell Hole after defeating Cyberdemon.:flu-glass5: