should we talk peace with pakistan?

guys what should we do .Thousands of soldiers and innocent civilians have been killed in our j&k .even though i have never been to that state for that matter never even been to any north indian states its still part of my country.And seeing how punkistan supports these misguided young asswholes to destabilize our country should we still be sitting across the table and tlking peace?.cant we just crush them with our military might?