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Why "Nice Guys" are often "Losers"

4 posts · originally from https://geek.digit.in/community/threads/why-nice-guys-are-often-losers.75684/

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Hitboxx Original post #1
Dec 14, 2007 at 9:53 AM
Read this and stop whining :D
You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless ***** for dumping him."
I get letters from self-professed Nice Guys, complaining that women must WANT to be treated like ****, because THEY, the "Nice Guy" have failed repeatedly in relationships. This is akin to the false logic that "Whales are mammals. Whales live in the sea. Therefore, all mammals live in the sea."
If you have one bad relationship after another, the only common denominator is YOU. Think about it. READ ON

PS: The word in the URL is b.itches (without the dot .)
nix
nix #2
Dec 14, 2007 at 11:34 AM
not all girls are like that. plus, it depends on the guy too. no girl wants a sad, cry baby guy. its best to find a girl who will like you for what you are. dont go behind the 'hot' shallow chicks...
Quiz_Master
Dec 15, 2007 at 9:16 PM
Agree with Nix....

BTW... Its a world where everyone should behave fsking damn cool....
It depends on attitude not on looks.. believe me...
enticer86
Dec 15, 2007 at 9:26 PM
when it comes to ppl, one can never b sure AND never believ in generalisations